how do i tell some one that i care about them but i dont love the on more?

Question

my ex is really in love with with me but i dont love him 7 years is a long time but he is really mean but hes a good firend and i have tryed to tell him that i dont love him but i do care about him

Answer 1

Stop lieing to yourself. How could he possible be a good friend? Honest how? Realize friendships are at the center of all deep and meaningful relationships. So you don't have one, point blank. I'm sorry but if you paint it wrong in your head your going to confuse yourself and your actions. Understand that love is the all the feelings we feel for someone, and girl you love him. But as far as being friends, you guys never made it there. Friendship means more then saying I love you, I'm sorry, and O I'll work on that later. Its actually deeper then most lover relationships(its at the core,duh), so understand the problem with him wasn't the love, fool, it was the fact that he never applied that love enough to be your friend. We've got it backwards in our society and thats were most of our heck comes from, good luck the next time, or good luck hopfully god well give both of you strength to actually salvaging a true friendship from this. Heres another hint to, friends slap each other when they do something stupid, and hug each other when they do something smart, they don't just tolerate each other for 7 years till one gets enough sense to leave, get? Not growing together destories relationships faster, better, and more efficiently then anything out there, anything....