What's wrong with this girl?
2007-05-09 03:21:46 · 17 answers · asked by Light&Darkness 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Love has no reason I believe and therefore it is possible to fall in love with any type of person, who is of any age!
Why do people assume that because this woman is only 24 and the man she may love whole heartidly is between 60 and 65, that there must be a reason such as 'Gold digging' behind it?.
Personal opinions are all well and good, but I believe that it is far too judgemental to say that this girl is 'sick', just because she is involved with someone who is a lot older than herself!!
Age has no relevance when forming human relationships, if it did, it would not be possible to have a relationship/friendship with our children or any child or indeed a person who is much older than ourselves. There are social, legal and fundemental boundaries we should never cross, but I do not think that these apply in relation to this Woman etc.
She is an adult and therefore can make her own choices in life! She may indeed have dishonest motives in being with this gentelman however personally I think a lot of older men do have a lot to give, for example knowledge, wisdom, life experience(these are all things that can be very appealing when falling in love with another or indeed forming friendships). Just because a person is old/older than yourself, does not mean that they do not matter in the world!!
whether it be from already founded relationship with others or a new found love, older people still matter!!
I think the real question here should be......Why do we judge others, just because we would not live our lives, or indeed agree with the way others choose to live theirs??
2007-05-09 21:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by littlebee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with her. Watz wrong in girl going with 65 year old men. Y do you wanna wear a blue glass and look at her. She might have a good intention in moving with them. It might because of the care, love, affection those men show on her which she should have been longing for years.
According to me there is nothing wrong in going with anyone unless and until people know their limits.
Cheers.
2007-05-09 03:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Different 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Defiantly looking for a daddy(or grandpa) figure or a gold digger. Maybe the need for an old guy who is seemingly stable, gone all kinds of wrong. Low, low, low,low self esteem issues as well. Playing the dating game is hard as heck and you face a buttload of rejection. I guess dating someone, with on foot in the grave, you don't really have to deal with that. oh yeah,..um...SUPER YUK!
2007-05-09 03:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy_Woman 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Gold Digger
2007-05-09 03:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Where are all these creeps coming from? Were they born crack babies? They should be the poster children for "this is what happens when you're pregnant and you take drugs". Who in the hell knows this stuff and is not reporting these men as child molesters and rapists? Doesn't anyone have any morals and sense of civic responsibility any more? NO one hesitates to report people on Yahoo, but they let rapists go free, and give them free publicity on the internet and television news? I give up.
2007-05-09 03:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Men? Plural? At the same time or consecutively?
2007-05-09 03:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by dresdnhope 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just to play devil's advocate here. Maybe the men her age are too pushy sexually. Older men tend to be more gentle, patient, slow, and sometimes impotent. Maybe she was sexually abused or raped and feels more comfortable with older men who are not threatening.
2007-05-09 04:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by punxy_girl 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you must be referring to the 64 yr. old dude in griffin, GA. who killed his 24 yr. old girlfriend? sad huh?
2007-05-09 03:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by hasdad62 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's looking for a grandfatherly figure or is a gold digger?
2007-05-09 03:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
not good at all....looking for trouble and just might find it.... looking for love in all the wrong places
2007-05-09 03:42:19 · answer #10 · answered by MS.MOCHA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋