Cut a long story short, Never liked my real dad. Mum got a new boyfriend a bit younger than her. He hits her. I know he does but she doesnt say anything. I cant stand him. I made it clear to both of them that I dont like him. I dont like staying in the house anymore. She always takes his side. Mum was out at a friends house (hen party). I went out and I came back at 11 pm which is really late according to him. He started shouting at me and called me a b*tch. I got mad and swore back. He pushed me really hard against the wall and he was going to hit me but I pushed him and locked myself in my room. He was banging on the door so I played loud music. He eventually went away. I cant talk to my mum. I hate what she is doing to us both. She's insecure. I wish she would leave that control freak.
2007-05-09 03:11:35 · 6 answers · asked by Psychotically Bored 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I was never close to my mum. If I tell her she will accuse me of being a trouble maker. I am 16. Cant talk to anyone.
2007-05-09 03:13:11 · update #1
I dont like my dad. I dont want anything to do with him. He is far away.
2007-05-09 03:22:07 · update #2
Start planning for life on your own because your mother will never leave this abuser if she has not already left him.
She clearly has very low self esteem and feels like she is not worth more than being punched on.
Do not put yourself in a position of being abused as well. Stay clear of him and keep your door to your bedroom locked when you are in it.
If you have a trusted friend you could confide in, you can talk to them about your situation and have a safe place to be if things get really bad.
In the meantime, plan your getting out on your own.
2007-05-09 03:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by happydawg 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi...Sorry to hear this...you do have a problem. First of all, is there by chance any other relative you could stay with temporarily? Like a grandparent or aunt or uncle? This might be a solution. Is there anyway that you could take your mum to lunch or go to the park so the both of you could talk privately without her bf listening in? Tell her what he had done to you and also what you know about what he is doing to her. She needs to know. And also he needs to keep his hands off of you! I hate to say this but if her bf puts his hands on you again I would call the authorities and maybe then your mum will open her eyes on what kind of person she is dealing with. If you can't talk to her face to face, write her a letter and explain things. Sometimes one can express their feelings better in a letter than to talk one on one. He had no right in calling you names. Take care and I wish you luck on your unfortunate problem. God Bless.
2007-05-09 10:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by shuggabhugga05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she does not kick the bumb out that you are going to go live with Dad because you cannot live like this. Then follow through with it. Women (well good ones) will always choose their kids over their sex toys.
2007-05-09 10:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report his beatings to the police, and the other mistreatments he's done to you, He's just a boyfriend, not in the family and the police may have past records on him as well.
2007-05-09 10:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your grandparents. Tell them how you feel and what your mom's boyfriend is doing to her. Maybe they can get through to her. I wish you luck.
2007-05-09 10:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that if she doesnt leave him..Than you will leave. And if she lets you leave..then its because she cares more about him than you. So *** it..Call HRS
2007-05-09 10:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by gurl20073 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋