im 15 i hate my life, i cant stand it anymore, i cant ever do anything right, im homeskuld, i cant b on the fone at all my mom nd stepdad get mad i cant go out i cant hav a bf even tho ive had som bhind there bacz i cant do anything, i cook nd clean wen they tell mi 2 nd yet my mom sayz i dont do nothin nd im lazy, she threatenz mi wit thingz, ething that happenez iz alwayz my fault my sister takz money frum her purse nd my mom blamez it on mi, i hav no1 2 turn 2, i cry myself 2 sleep enight, i try nd do ething she tellz mi but itz stil not enuff, she makz mi tel other ppl liez 2 help her out nd then tellz them im lyin 2 them wen shez the 1 that made mi do that, i tel her i wana c a doctor cuz i think i hav depression nd she tellz mi itz all i my head HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-09 02:46:54 · 14 answers · asked by >_< 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i know how to spell "mickey g" its just yahoo not a spelling bee, thats why i spell like that
2007-05-09 03:34:19 · update #1
The good news: I don't think it's depression.
The bad news: I think it's stress.
You know, I hate to say this, but from where I'm standing, this sounds like abuse to me, and nobody should have to take your mom and stepdad have been doing to you. It's harsh. If you weren't homeschooled, I'd say talk to a counselor, but since you ARE homeschooled ... Is there another relative you can talk to? Can you call a teen-help hotline for advice? I know you can't use the phone, but could you find a way?
I know this is really hard for you, and I wish I could help you more. If there's a good point to all this, it's that you're learning self-control, you're learning cook and clean and take care of yourself, you're learning to deal with people who don't appreciate you (which is a good skill to have), and you only have to put it up with it for 2-3 more years before you can get away. I know that seems like a long time, but it's really not.
Get a relative to help you. Good luck.
2007-05-09 02:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by crispy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you are obviously depressed due to your life situation. It seems to send you into a panic. Your Mom is probably doing the best she can and loves you. At least you're not homeless with no one to care about you.
You have to put your mind beyond this situation to another time in the future when you will finally have your own life and can make your own decisions.
It seems like you will have to walk through a symbolic fire of persecution and seeking employment. Don't commit suicide. Don't end up on the streets. You can't depend on other teenagers to help you if they are on drugs. You could get killed. Don't go looking for a man too support you either because you don't want to be a subjugated wife before you're ready for that. Maybe there is another family that can take you in and help you get emancipated perhaps or live with your dad. Can you go to college?
Keep Cinderella close to your heart except you will have to change the ending to how she escapes her fate and is her own champion. You already know what it takes to keep a home. You will have to do all this by yourself when you have your own place.
2007-05-16 17:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I think what you need to do is wlak to a payphone and call the kids help line. I know that it sounds cheesy nut what you are suffering is mental abuse and your paretns should know better. It is not fair to you to have to deal with this all the time. What ever you do never believe that it is your fault, your mom has salf esteem issues and that is why she takes thing out on you. But make the call. Even if you have to sneak out or wait for them to go to bed or something, At least then you can talk to a professional counselor. Just don't do anything rash, and when they are being really bad walk away take deep breaths and remember that you are a person and they can never take that away from you.
2007-05-16 14:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was there about 8 years ago. My parents were really really strict and I couldn't do anything! I used to sit in the bathtub and just cry my eyes out every night. I had a stupid boyfriend who was suppose to "love me" but he treated me like crap. Anyway, Life goes on and it will get better. I promise. If u really think you need help with your depression, which I would say you probably do, try to talk with another family member. You're too young to take yourself to the doc, but another family member, besides your mom, could take you. Where is your dad? Is he in the picture? Good Luck, Angel! You'll make it and be just fine. Just remember that you are not what your parents say you are. You have the power to be the person you want to be. Good Luck, Sweetie. And God Bless!
2007-05-17 02:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart my heart goes out to you.
Sugar first thing.... please spell correctly. If this is how your mom has taught you to spell she isn't doing a very good job of home schooling you.
Second is in a few years three! you can move out of your parents home and have your own life. Learn everything you can so that you will be ready. You need to be able to communicate well with others and earn a job or college scholarships.....
Is there any other adults that you can approach honestly about how your parents treat you? You need to really confide in someone who can help you. There are people who care.
2007-05-09 02:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my parents are kinda of the same but not as bad. theres a cartoon called naruto. he a bad child hood. he got treated like the scum of the earth, worse then u. when he got tired of always crying he decided to give everything he had into what ever he did. he took what ever people thought or said about him and proved them wrong, beacuse he never gave up, he tries his best, and even tries to make his dreams come true. thats what you have got to do.
2007-05-16 21:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn!....I mean, wow, you have a serious problem there, just dont kill yourself. Well look, you are 15, so only 3 more years before you can do whatever the hell you want, just bear with them, I promise you that good things will happen in the future, just hang in there.
2007-05-09 02:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by Cipher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her telling you that your depression is all in your head is kinda funny. Where else would depression be, your foot. Tell her you would like to speak to a therapist, if she says no then call Child Protection Services, they will arrange the therapy for you.
2007-05-09 02:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by blakereik 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yikes, if this came from a homeschooled kid then your "teacher" blows and shouldnt be allowed to teach.
1st, learn to write so people know what you're trying to say. 2nd, your 15. everyone is depressed at your age.
2007-05-09 02:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as you parents are concerned they are trying to make you responsible and they are looking out for your best entrust. but you don't have to do wrong things that your sister tell you to do when she tells you to do something wrong tell her no and tell your parents what she tried to do .and if you see her stealing money out of your mom's purse again tell your mom soon as you see her doing it and your mom will check he for money then they will know your telling them the truth
2007-05-16 10:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋