...When you take charge of your life, there is no longer need to ask permission of other people or society at large.
When you ask permission, you give someone veto power over your life...
2007-05-09 00:51:23 · 16 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
True but when you're in a relationship. You have to confide in your lover. Just the way it is. That is if you want the relationship to work.
2007-05-09 11:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i haven't asked permission for things since i had to, before i was an adult. tho i think i'll always ask for input on important life decisions from the people i love and are important to me because i don't know everything and sometimes good advice is needed.
2007-05-09 08:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by somebody's a mom!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is why I don't ask. I make a decision and follow through. No one gets to have that kind of control over me.
That also means that I take responsibility for those decisions whatever the consequence.
2007-05-09 08:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only ask permission when I'm considering going out with a friend's ex, and even that'srare. Cardinal rule, never go after a friends ex unless otherwise noted.
2007-05-09 08:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by kytigirl200 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't ask permission. But if it's a major decision which will affect my loved ones, I'll discuss with them, or at least seek their opinions before I decide.
2007-05-09 08:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by ©act⊍⊍a® 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You make a good point, I only would differ that sometimes when people's lives intertwine you do give others input on your decisions. Anyone who doesn't at least consider the wishes of others either lives alone on a deserted island or is the most ego-centric person in the world...
At least that's the word on the street.
2007-05-09 07:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't ask for permission, its my own life and I want to lead it! I usually ask for advice though because I suck at making decisions. ;)
2007-05-09 07:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by ^^ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When my choices effect their life as well, then I get their opinion. It may not sway my decision, but I do need to weigh it in.
2007-05-09 07:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by amstaff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in charge of your own life someone else is not so I make my own decisions.
2007-05-09 07:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by Marenight 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
living alone pretty much precludes seeking permission!
2007-05-09 07:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋