2007-05-09 00:34:25 · 16 answers · asked by ilani_huntress9 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My take is simple, yes. In different ways, but yes it is possible to be in love with two or more people at the same time.
Love isn't a cup you fill with emotion, love is a color you see, which fills YOU with emotions.
Sometimes you love someone and know them utterly but find yourself interested in something bewildering and altogether new.
Your exploration reveals fascination, fascination quickly grows into a slight hint of an emotion, and then its all down hill (or up hill) from there.
The initial color fills you with knowing, insight, happiness. The new color, you also love now, fills you with the same emotions.
Their shades may be different, the emotions may be different, but remember this is not a point scoring game. This is flavor, touch, smell, these things CANNOT be scored, and so you can't love one more than the other. So, you love them both, deeply but differently.
2007-05-09 01:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kedar 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
NO. The heart falls in love one person at a time. It's possible to love someone and also be IN-love with another person. You can love 2 people, but not be IN love with 2 at the same time. It may feel that way at a moment, but you will see that you're not really in love with them both. Besides, MOST people in this world want to couple up, not be in a triangle. It's enough for just two people to open up to each other, build a life together and grow without adding other people into the mix. Lovers in threes seldom work, and they sure won't last forever because nobody cares to share their lover and grow old in a threesome unless they are fried from getting stoned. Some of those earth biscuits should stop smoking so much crap and then their minds will actually be clear. Love DOES have some limits, but there are some people in this world who are greedy and they think they can have 2 of EVERYTHING. Your heart serves one love at a time. It's your head that confuses things.
...Sorry, but that's how the heart really works. And I don't care who disagrees because they'll learn, too.
2007-05-09 02:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, human love and attractions are curious things. You can love two at once but you'll often find what you love about one is different from what you love about the other one. Its a tricky situation and sometimes choosing between the two can be almost impossible and often heart-breaking.
Tread lightly when playing with other peoples feelings!!
2007-05-09 03:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really is a demanding project to wrap your head round because our American subculture would not condone distinct relationships. yet in case you look at historic previous and different cultures or maybe branches of the Mormon church, then definite, it really is accessible for someone to love many human beings in a romantic style. merely as moms and dads love all their children, they love each and each person in a unique way in spite of the indisputable fact that the affection all of them an similar. I have had to attend to my major different having emotions for yet another lady. We explored a plural relationship for more effective or less a week and that i found i could not take care of it for a number of motives. Married human beings do not stop having crushes and infatuations because they are married. the project accessible right here's that this guy's major different is conscious no longer some thing about the affair and he did make a promise to his major different. you should look into a number of the web pages that take care of affairs, particularly the psychological variations that ensue in the mind even as everybody is in deep infatuation to really understand why human beings succumb to affairs and experience that they could't stay without their fanatics.
2016-11-26 21:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your reflection and who you think you are. If one day someone came and told you I love you, and so-and-so too, wouldn't that just make your summer? There are different degrees of love, and hate and the lines between them tend to blur when you're trying to justify loving two people at the same time while one of those people you have honored to love is looking for a bat to bring upside your stupid head.
2007-05-09 00:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by ISITINN 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes...just different types sometimes....there might be a certain chemistry that you receive from one or the other.....
Most like to say "you either love them or you don't".. I think love is vast and ever changing and cannot be chained down or exactly defined
Hope that helps
2007-05-09 01:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible but usually you love one person for these aspect and the other person for these aspects.
2007-05-10 07:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by selena d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's known as polyamory. It's poly as in multiple, amory as in amor as in love.
I often wonder when watching TV shows and the romantic lead has a decision to make why she doesn't just date both and be done with it.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory
2007-05-09 02:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
possibley, there's always cases of people being torn between the choice of two suitors, it doesn't mean that they like/love either person any less, it just means they have to go through the heart rending decision to pick which one of them to be with, as most people seem to choose monogamous relationships over bigamous or polygamous ones.
2007-05-09 00:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by §ilver 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, absolutely. I'm polyamorous and have 3 partners, all of whom know each other and are happy with the situation, and actually two of them are involved with each other.
2007-05-09 05:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by TFR 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋