2007-05-08 22:59:17 · 23 answers · asked by komal b 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
First finish yr studies, get a job and then think of pyar vyar ........
The age for education does not come back!!!!!
U can love even if u are fifty.
2007-05-08 23:39:55 · answer #1 · answered by ๏๓ รђคภtเ, รђคภtเ รђคภtเ ....... ! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends where you are in your studies, still in highschool- yes it'll screw you over, but once you're in college, you have a bit more maturity.
I personally think its okay as long as you both have the same goals. Like if you're both extremly academic and both extremly motivated then it could work out okay. But say if one is aiming to go to an Ivy league while the other wants to do an apprentichip there will come a time when they will complain about the lack of time
and the inevitable "don't you love me?"
Of course in periods of high stress the relationship gets a lot worse... ie EXAM PERIODS, and the amount of girls who get dumped/dumpee their boyfriends goes to an all time high. Then guess what, they're so miserable the last thing they want to do is think, let alone study.
My Mum is a psychologist and at the end of every year she does the rounds of the schools and on average during testing periods she'll get about 50 girls crying about broken relationships and how its affecting their studies...
she's banned me from relationships in high school, says once I get into the university I want then I'm fine.. until then...
2007-05-08 23:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes yes and sometimes no. Love becomes good if it motivates you to live your life to the fullest and do your best to have a better future, which includes studying hard. But if your love just distracts you from your studies, then it is not true love because if it is, you will think about your future and the future of your significant other, and so be serious in your studies.
2007-05-08 23:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by gel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no preconception about love....it doesn't come into your life with a prior notice, it just happens, as soon as you find that you n the other person have same interest...n then love comes into existence!!!
study on other hand is a necessity....u have to study no matter what you have to go thru'!!!
in my opinion, love doesn't spoil ur study, or something!!!!
love holds no value if it aims at harming one's interests or somebody.............
2007-05-08 23:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by saya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love and study is part of life, by study you can live better life and enjoy it and love is a chance ,to whom you are love with if it was wrong choice the love some time spoils your life not even your study , but if your choice is good that love will not spoils your study but make you study more and better life
2007-05-08 23:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by vipboy_19 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depend on the lover if he/she educated person and like to have some career to her/him self then love wont spoil your studied but if the lover care about them self then study is more important education is your career but love you could always meet some good people in fault in love with but when you grow older you cannot go back to high school and attend university.
2007-05-08 23:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is always a specific time for each activity. One must decide his / her own priorities in life and should have focussed sequence of activities to win in life. Success is a very relative term but still planning in life is a must. Love has a full importance in each living person's life. No one can avoid that. It is upto each individual to decide as to how much one should get involved into it and dilute the priorities in life. You should not sacrifice the priorities for love or you should not sacrifice love for your career. You have to balance yourself between these two..... thats life dear!
2007-05-08 23:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying that love is more important than your studies is irresponsible, and most likely just an excuse to slack off on your schoolwork.
2007-05-08 23:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Study first. Love later. It's safer, easier, and more practical to give your heart to someone else once you've established yourself in whichsoever field you choose and have a stable income. Unromantic, but hey, it's the truth. Good luck.
2007-05-10 20:58:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom knows a woman whose son earned straight A's until he got a girlfriend — then he started getting D's. When I was in love with a guy in ninth grade, I could barely concentrate on anything. Once you've completed your education, you won't have to worry about balancing them with love. Save it for later.
I'm probably going to start worrying about love after I retire and I don't have as many priorities.
2007-05-09 05:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋