I like this guy,we used to work together..The thing is,he just stares @me-he notices everything,even my new pierced ears lol,he wil look @my hair,eyelashes,eyebrows,lips then back into my eyes,its been going on for mnths leading to nothing,if he should ask me out,should i say NO as it seems clearly he has doubt abt me,or is it coz my race,i want him to ask me out,jus so i can say NO,advisable?
2007-05-08 17:25:27 · 19 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe he's afraid you won't date outside your race.
2007-05-08 17:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by bernel1403 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well should he ask you out and you feel like it say yes. One date won't hurt. He may just think you are tooo beautiful to ask out an he moght be afraid that you would say no. I live in Sweden now an I knew this girl she was iranian. She was very beautiful. She was also very bubbly all the guys liked her I felt like a dog beside her. There was another girl that worked with us she of course was different but none the less beautiful in fact I want to paint her because her features are so remarkable(no I am not gay) I am married. This is how I got married. I met my husband online I am from the states he is(was) in Sweden he is iranian also. He was a Judo champion and I am a big girl. I thought no way would someone who takes care of his body would be attracted to me. So after exchanging pictures(he looked like the actor from the old show Highlander) and talking on the phone for 5 months I decided to go to Sweden to meet him. We were married 4 weeks later and have now been together almost 5 years. What I am saying is give him one more week, when it is time for lunch invite him to go with you. That way he won't think it's a date you can go to some little place that offers fast food I don't know if you have any little "bistros" where you live but here there are plenty of places besides McD's that offer "fast"t food during lunch hour so people can get back to work. Then you can talk during that time. If after that he doesn't ask you out or he says no and does not leave you with another day to go then you know he is not right and he just thinks you are too beautiful to go out with.
2016-05-18 22:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love conquers all. Scientifically, according to DNA haplotype/genographic studies our common ancestors wandered out of Africa, back and forth across the steppes before the ancestors of modern India broke off the group, and what became the Europeans wandered west. Celtic mythology shares common threads with that of India before it was shoehorned to fit into Christian tradition by Irish monks. All humans are the same inside, every heart, every brain is different, just a issue if they allow themselves to be themselves, to think for themselves. If he likes you for "who" you are, and not what you look like, that is sadly a rare thing, but wonderful. If looks are everything to him, you are not missing out on anything if he won't go out with you.
2007-05-08 17:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh babe you are leading him on and that is not fair. Forget the race issue, you are two people that have something in common and lots of people now have mixed race partnerships. You know you feel something for him and he feels for you but you are both frightened of the race issue. Well babe I am English white and my partner is afro/american. Go for it babe, lots of white men love to be with someone like you. I find most Asians very good looking and nice.
2007-05-10 10:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I don't see how the man "clearly" has doubts about you.... If he's checking you out, he might be interested. He could be shy. Go ahead and make the first move. You'll never know if you never ask.... Sometimes the risk is worth it. Good luck. :-)
2007-05-08 17:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by StellaBtheWriter 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just go for it, dont wait for him to make the first move! your race doesnt matter, yes it creates extra obstacles-but its all worth it in the end. You should be able to share any issues about interracial dating you have with him, if hes the one for you-you have to be able to discuss these things if your relationship has any chance.
2007-05-09 03:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by helen b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, this is the 21st century. Inter-racial dating is not a crime punishable by death. If you want to know if he's interested in you, ask HIM out. Movies, a cuppa - anything. If he says "No thanks", then you'll know. Lightning will NOT strike you down if you approach him first.
2007-05-08 17:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
do you want to open a can of worms? let sleeping dogs lie go about your business and leave the unknown to the unknown why disturb the already muddy waters more find someother project in life that will make you a happy healthy hum,an being so you can support yourself in the community in other words take a look at your future where are you headed with these kind of questions cant you find something worthwhile to occupy your mind?
2007-05-08 17:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by vanessa 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Maybe you have "no" written on your eyes, that's why he doesn't ask you out, but why do you want to say "NO" to someone you like, it is just silly.
2007-05-08 18:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by Bounce Up 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he asks you out and you want to date him then go for it, he probably thinks that you might not date outside your race, so if you like him ask him out. good luck :-)
2007-05-09 10:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by chicfest81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋