say that you were really fat in high school... and the person you liked wouldnt date you because they thought you were too ugly.
10 years later, you have lost the weight... and are complimented all the time on how beautiful you are.
you end up meeting this guy again, and he seems to have changed a lot since high school. he also thinks youre gorgeous, and you feel the same way about him.
what do you do? do you go on a date with him or do you say hell no because he was too shallow to date you in high school?
if youre a guy would you date a girl who did this?
2007-05-08 16:43:41 · 15 answers · asked by Little Girl 2 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
btw, im not in this situation, im only 18! i was just wondering what people would do
2007-05-08 16:49:54 · update #1
Date? Yes...
Everyone deserves a 2nd chance....
Also, I am NOTHING like I was in high school. I wouldn't have dated me in highschool.
With age comes wisdom ( some times ) and most of us do grow up and mature somewhat.
< peace >
2007-05-08 16:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but the first thing I would do is test out this person, and see if they really have changed their attitude. Remember that he was young in high school, and was only acting this way because of peer pressure. If you can forgive him, and he is the one for you, then give it a try. But let's say in another ten years, if you gain some of the weight back, will he still stick around, or go for another skinny girl? You need to really get to know him again, and make sure you are happy. Some guys I knew in school still acted the same after school was long over.
2007-05-08 16:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would never get with the guy that rejected me. I do not care who he is, if he can pass up on me, child, I will pass him up even when I am thin and gorgeous because I (at the time in the future) can get any guy I want, within reason.
2007-05-08 16:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by sherbert 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, datings guys who rejected me in h.s. would give me a BIG dating pool! :)
yes, i would do this - people change a lot in 10 years, people in high school are not too mature by definition, and everybody deserves a second chance.
of course, this would only apply if he was really cute! :)
2007-05-08 17:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go out with them but I would take things VERY slowly until I could decide if they were truly a deeper person or just trying to get in my pants.
2007-05-08 16:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by Oprah's Minge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a date with the person, make them fall in love with you and then dump them. LOL
2007-05-08 16:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how badly he treated me and how much he's changed. Most likely not, and if I did, I would probably just stand him up or do something equally rude.
2007-05-08 16:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes I would and I would let him know how he treated me years before.. and then I would stop talking to him. It is my way of saying, How do you like me now? I wasn't good enough for you
years ago so you aren't good enough for me now...
2007-05-09 12:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
2007-05-08 16:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
...nah... this actually happened to me, i gave the guy the coldest shoulder as i walked off with another girl... it was a little amusing...
2007-05-08 16:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋