Why do people judge you when they don't even know you!?

Question

Basically, i'm like an overall happy person, like you know im not shy im outgoing. I guess im kinda pretty.

Anyways, people at school are saying that i think im the s.hit and think im full of it. Trust me i'm not, like my freinds say im the nicest person they know.ITs just the pople who dont know me label me this way. Like my freinds told these people that they don't even know me... but like honestly wddf. How the hell am i like that, i dont act like it.. just cuz im happy with my life means im freakin full of myself.

Argg . what the hell.
any tips?

Answer 1

I know exactly! how you feel! When I was in High school. I was actually kinda pretty and very skinny. A bunch of girls said that about me too & I couldn't figure out why they would say such a thing. I didn't think or act like anything special. I was so shocked & hurt. Then a friend told me she heard them talking and she thought they were jelous of me. Now people judge me 1st becuz I'm fat. I am still a very nice person w/good sense of humor just a bigger butt! ha!ha! But people have stereo-types of fat people that they are lazy or whatever but that's not me at all. If they took the time to know me they would see I'm a person who would do anything to help another. The girls are probably jelous of you cuz they don't look as good as you. Give them time to grow up! Jelousy is a hard to thing to let go of.

Answer 2

Well, sometimes they want to know you, but you may not give them a chance to know you...
Once is enough, twice pushing it, three times strike out...
So... don't be surprised when people judge you even though you don't even know them...
The key here is to do self-reflect... are you doing the right thing? Do you give enough chance for people to know you?

Or... you're a type of a person who don't care about what other people think as long as you can enjoy your life? If that's the case, don't even bother...

Try to socialize more and be more approachable...
Wish u all the best!

Answer 3

these people are either jealous or they like to think they know you, people always talk sh it about people they don't know as if they did know them. unfortunately it's just part of life. Don't let it get you down, honestly just tell yourself they are jealous. it is the truth. I am 29 and understand because I remember how that is, and i know i've done that too. (judged when i didnt know)you probably have too. it's just human nature.

Answer 4

I wouldn't worry about it. The people saying these things are probably jealous of you. What matters is that your true friends like you for who you are, and they are the ones who will stand by you. The others do not matter.

Answer 5

I know what you mean. I barely knew the judge that convicted me. He told me the best thing for me was to serve 10-20 years in prison. How the hell does he know what's best for me?

Answer 6

It shows that you have self esteem. You probably know how to conduct yourself and if you are liked by your peers, Other people just take potshots at you just to tick you off. Continue the way you are And the hell with them. You cannot please everyone.

Answer 7

Ignore the critics and live your life the way you want. Don't let them win.

Answer 8

one tip is to ignore them and don't let it bother you what they think, let them if they want as long as you know your not , then that is what counts. some people don't have anything better to do than to judge people. have fun.

Answer 9

for most people it's a combination of jealousy and laziness. early judgments are more convenient than getting to know you.

Answer 10

It's natural for people to judge. Right or wrong.