Lets get this over with?

Question

i was thinking that while my boyfriend was trying to seduce me to make love and i just thought "lets get this over with!" and we had sex...am i falling out of love?

Answer 1

Don't worry about it. Guys live for sex....the testosterone pumps the muscles up, that gives them (us) more strength, therefore more well-being, therefore more desire for sex.
Women have oestregen which makes them more emotionnal, which makes them want to talk about their feelings, which in turn probably creates more oestrogen.
The natural law is that when women ask a man to talk, he thinks she wants sex, so he finds a way to convince her, and she'll just go : lets get this over with....Its all normal.

Answer 2

i thought i was answering movie questions...

but any way, my question to you would be how often does this happen?

if you feel this way a lot of the time, you may have a problem.

if this was a one time thing or happens infrequently, there might not be a problem.

not to get too personal, but is there ever a time when you really wanted to and he didn't...at first any way? maybe he was watching sports on TV or something and you initiated things. sure, he probably got into it once you got going (hey, he's a guy!!!!) but you were the instigator in that particular situation and he just sort of went along with your program.

so, again, if you feel that way a lot of the time, possible problem. if it only happens occasionally, it might not be an issue (btw i hear married folks do this all the time...hah!!).

Answer 3

No dear, it just means boredom has hit the bedroom! If you have been together awhile, try making love in places your not used too, like the washing machine!Or on the balcony or patio at night when you feel sneaky! Or go shopping for new lingerie,and pick him up some too Roleplaying is a great venture:)

Answer 4

I have felt like the plenty of times with my ex boyfriend. It doesn't necessarily mean that you are falling out of love with your boyfriend. You're probably not in the mood to make love to him at that time. Don't feel bad about it. You will feel like that sometimes. Guys always seem to be in the mood to have sex...I guess it's in their nature.

Answer 5

Maybe you're just bored with the routine. You should try something new. Don't be inhibited. Tell him. Otherwise, you might come to resent him. Orgasm is a wonderful gift that every woman should have. And it'll make you love him more.

Answer 6

maybe. Girls give sex to get love and guys give love to get sex. I learned that from a book i am reading for the youth group at my church. You may have just wanted the love and affection. I dont think that you should have had sex until after your married but that was your own choice.

Answer 7

I do that from time to time, I don't think it means your falling out of love I think it means he is just no doing his job or you could be bored with the same positions or tired,, just give it time, listen to your heart cuz it will tell you when you cant stand him anymore//

Answer 8

Naawwww, sometimes you do it to please the other person even when your not in the mood because you do love them. Making love isn't always this big production full of all these earth shaking moves. Sometimes it's just nice and comfortable and sometimes one person is more into it then the other. You'll be okay.

Answer 9

Sounds like you need to do some soul-searching. I think you probably COULD be, but you also have to take into consideration the other stress factors in your life before dumping him. Best of luck!

Answer 10

Nah... just take a break witht he whole sex thing and have an innocent relationship for a while and it'll probably get better soon.