my husband cant figure out if he wants me or not or i cant tell either way its confusing amd i'm tried of the game what can i do.
2007-05-08 15:21:16 · 21 answers · asked by janine4lyfe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girl Your husband..You shouldn't even be asking this a not be in marriage counseling...When you originally asked the question my first thoughts were that you were single...Does this sound right to you.....Think about what went wrong or talk to him...
2007-05-08 15:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.That's an awful place to be. Your husband can't figure out if he wants you? Wow. How flattering is that! There could be any number of reasons, like: He's a jerk.
He's considering other options.
He's involved in an extra-marital relationship and the women he's having the affair with can't figure out if she wants him.
What can you do? Suggest separating so that he can sort out his feelings.
2007-05-08 15:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't give mixed signals--women just don't want to hear what they are saying. What do you want? Is he providing what you need? I don't know how old you are, but maybe he's just not mature enough for marriage. Does that excuse his behavior? No. But you have to decide if you want to keep playing games--especially if you know he's playing them.
2007-05-08 16:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by HeIsMyAllinAll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you think it's easy being a man huh. Us guys can be quite irrational beings and usually think between our legs. It also depends in the upbringing of the guy. Is your husband a mama's boy? Get him to open up to you or get a close common friend or relative to mediate between you two and create an open line of communication. Good luck and God bless.
2007-05-08 15:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by WINGMAN71 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess you should have figured this out before you got married. Neither of you changed, you just didn't see the signals.
2007-05-08 15:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because we like the girl but are unsure of what she wants or where she'll go. Face it... we guys aren't good at reading "signals" we go for the in-your-face tell-it-like-it-is approach and so we also suck at giving "signals".
2007-05-08 15:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by jb_sulli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would love to know the real answer to this too but all i can think of is the thrill of the chase is over so they lose interest or they arent ready for a relationship. i come across this with most guys too, i always joke and say im a jerk magnet. i also am easy going, sweet, fun and sexy so i tend to be very confused by the actions of men, i am "seeing" "talking to" whatever you want to call it, as well.
2016-04-01 03:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing the game and start living life. People have the habit of thinking that life sort of just happens to them. You can make things happen in life and you can create the life you desire.
2007-05-08 15:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by Osiris 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait. Sounds like you have problem receiving signals.
2007-05-08 15:36:56 · answer #9 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again! Why is it his decision to make? Find your backbone!
So, you are sitting there waiting on him to decide whether he wants you or not? Let's say he decide to keep you, will you roll over and kiss his feet?
If you are that insecure, what ever decision he makes will not benefit you in any way.
2007-05-08 15:32:40 · answer #10 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋