Two only please.
please explain a bit. thanks!
2007-05-08 15:08:17 · 19 answers · asked by ~hope~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
anger management issues- no abuse physically, mentally, sexually, emotionally, no loud obnoxious or bullying behavior.
(this includes lying and manipulating under emotional)
NO division of labor by gender. I am not his mom, I am his partner. If I can chop wood, clean fish, hunt/fish, set up camp, snowblow, etc. He can wash dishes, fix dinner, do laundry clean house, etc.
(and yes, I'm feminine, AND capable! I just enjoy not being trapped in town all the time..)
2007-05-08 15:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by dedum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bologna!
What ever good qualities a man has coming into a relationship, he's bound to have as many bad ones that will work your nerves over the long run. Why not look for compatibility? This way, his bad qualities along with yours have a better chance of surviving.
By the way, what ever he is when you meet him ............... you're gonna try to change before you marry him.
2007-05-08 22:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking about x relationships too much.. it lets me know that he either still has a thing for them or is looking to unload a sad story about how HE was done wrong. (when we both know that it take two to screw somthing up )
2nd thing is someone who lies... if they are caught in a few lies there will be many more to come ... true love should consist of honesty and trust.
2007-05-08 22:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by caligrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would look for if they are controlling and if they have a bad temper cause usually those two things lead to an abusive man.
2007-05-08 22:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by amerlinsintina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Poor financial health - unemployed, unable to support himself, no savings at all. Seriously, if I wanted to support someone, I'd have another child.
Emotional immaturity - if I wanted to be a parent, I 'd have had another child.
2007-05-08 22:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by Kaia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
any kind of substance abuse, whether the substance is legal (like alcohol) or illegal (like drugs) because -- no matter what the politically correct folks may say -- this indicates a serious level of self-involvement;
and
money issues, whether cheapness or reckless spending. it is a telltale sign of emotional immaturity.
2007-05-08 22:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew that I'd never marry an alcoholic or an abusive person. All else is workable.
2007-05-08 22:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid selfisness - anything else can be tolerated as long as this is never a problem.
2007-05-09 05:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by Sandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disrespectful! No person should treat you like crap and disrespect you in any way. Dirty I don't care if you are a man or not take care of yourself!
2007-05-09 00:26:50 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disrepectful - if I see him disrespect others, I know it won't be long before he tries it w/me
Backbone - If he doesn't have the backbone to defend himself or me, I can't respect him.
2007-05-08 22:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋