Hey dudes! What do you look for in a galpal?

Question

Ok, I'm completely, 100% into the idea that I'm looking for a guy-friend. It sounds weird, but that is the only way I know how to put it! I'm not interestedin dating, I'm only thirteen. But I'd realy like to have a good guy-friend. So, as stupid and idiotic as I think this is to ask. I need to ask! Dudes, what makes a cool galpal-girl-pal? I mean, I'm not goingto change myself. I'll always be me, no matter what. But still (here I go again) this soudns stupid. But what do you like about having a girl-pal? Whats fun about having a girl-pal? And what makes a greta galpal? PLEASE HELP! Somone you go to the park with and just talk, joke, and hang? PLEASE HELP! None of my friends have dude friends. We have all had trouble with the same girls, obnoxious and rude. Backstabbers. So, we think it's time to look for a dude-friend. With all repect. Is that normal?

HELP!

Answer 1

I'm particularly partial to people who can carry on interesting conversations. I'm a guy, and I can't even remember the last time I felt like I really had a "girlfriend". I just don't seem to do relationships like that.

It does seem to be particularly difficult to cultivate a "no strings attached" relationship like you are describing. Most people seem to want and expect much more than that in a relationship. Still, I think you will find there are people out there looking for that kind of thing. They may be more difficult to find, but they are out there, and I see nothing at all wrong with wanting that type of relationship. As a guy, I wish there were more gals into that sort of thing because relationships are particularly difficult for me to manage. (Long story that I won't go into here.) I would feel a lot more at ease socially with a galpal than a relationship of some other variety.

Anyway, I don't think you need help. What you need is a guy-friend. I wish you the best of luck in finding that most special breed of guy just for you.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I generally look for "nice"

Someone who is a caring person, generally. Don't have time for nasty bitchiness.

Beyond that, it's great to have stuff that you can relate to. Books or movies or music or something in common that you can talk about rather than spending all your time talking about the people in school (which tends towards becoming bitching sessions - see above).