What's with the relationship double standard?

Question

I've been browsing questions today, because of a problem I'm having, and have seen a number of them about girls going through hard times because the guy is the "bad guy." I've also seen guys doing the same because the girl is the "bad girl."

It seems like every one where the guy was blamed, the answers were all about leaving him, taking him for everything he has, take his kids away, and so forth. It's like he's automatically a jerk.

When the girl was causing the problems, the answers were to talk it out, work it out, see what you can do to make her happier, etc. In this case there are "problems" in the relationship.

What's with the double standard?

You're right, I only read questions based on a search dealing with my current predicament. Where the guy was at fault, the responses were to leave him. Where the girl was at fault, the responses were to try and resolve the issue.

Sorry if I come across somewhat frustrated, I was hoping to find some good info out here without airing my dirty laundry.

You're right, I only read questions based on a search dealing with my current predicament. Where the guy was at fault, the responses were to leave him. Where the girl was at fault, the responses were to try and resolve the issue.

Sorry if I come across somewhat frustrated, I was hoping to find some good info out here without airing my dirty laundry.

Answer 1

Women like to think of theme selves as morally superior when in fact they are not, hence men should submit to women and if the woman does something wrong its still the man's fault.

This sort of illogic is exactly the sort of thing that holds women back from being treated like equals.

Answer 2

I guess you weren't reading ALL of the answers. Just the ones that MIGHT proove your feeblely constructed point.