what is this person saying?

Question

Hello Veronica

Yes I have read your messages on IE and I am very sorry that things are the way they are with you. It can not be very easy for you but I am very pleased to hear that your business seems to be taking off.

Yes, I would like start again with you Veronica. It is very empowering for me to hear that you found my strength and masculinity empowering for your and I am very aroused at the thought of you totally submitting to me!

I have to admit however that I am concerned about the passionate nature that you have shown so far! I know that I was very bad mannered when I have to cancel our meeting and for not contacting you once things had sorted themselves out at home but I was somewhat taken aback by the voracity of your emails to me! I know you were angry but it was quite scary to read and the threats you made made me feel very uncomfortable about what might happen if things went any further with us. This is the reason I have not been in contact since then.

I therefore think it best we take things slowly and it would be good to meet up again for a glass of wine and to talk about exactly what you are looking for and what I am looking for.

I do understand that your marriage has broken up and I am sad for you but mine has not! I am therefore looking for a passionate but very discrete lover who wants to be totally controlled in the bedroom but who is not going to make any demands on my time when she is not with me. In short I am looking for a sex slave!

I know that me saying this may seem harsh but I wanted to be totally honest with you Veronica so that there are no mis-understandings. I have a very Dominant personality and want a girl who likes and needs to be treated sensitively but firmly but who is not going to do any thing to upset my home life.

If this is not you then I will fully understand and we can leave things as they stand. If however this is what you want from me please do let me know.


Anthony xx

Answer 1

this guy is bad news, all he is looking for is someone who can be available to him when he wants sex on the side, and who doesn't mind being his play toy, his wife deserves to know what is going on behind her back, if he can be honest with you about what he wants then he needs to be honest with his wife about his deception as well so that she can know the truth of what her marriage is and get what's coming to him....

Answer 2

Beware of this man,

So many red flags here. I've met men like this before and you better understand he's the type to prey in those who arn't as strong as the others. You are exactly what he's looking for. Somebody whose confidance is probably not what it should be after a break-up.

He contradicts himself, he says he wants to be totally honest with you yet- he is married and prepared to lie to his wife. With this logic apparent, what reason do you have to think he's not lying to you too?. I should also tell you that in any relationship requires trust and honesty. They are important for anything from a successful friendship to a successful marriage. In a dominant/submissive relationship it is even more important that you are able to trust your partner 100% without question because your physical and mental well-being may depend on it.

I would not even think about entering a relationship with this man and if I were you would cease all contact with him NOW.

Take some time out for yourself before you go doing anything hasty

best wishes

S
x

Answer 3

You need this translated? This isn't clear to you?

Lemme put it bluntly. He wants you to be his sex slave. Pure and simple. he ain't gonna leave you for his wife. He's happy that you're a submissive little play toy that he can screw around with at any whim that suits him howvere he initially and still thinks you're a psycho case and a possible control problem. As you have apparently displayed to him in the past.

So...to enter into the affair or not? He's made it quite clear. He wants to screw you every chance he gets...when its convienient for him only. If you upset his home life, rat him out to his wife or do anything to disrupt his family life...he'll probably kill you. No kidding. That's exactly what it reads and I cannot believe you're stupid enough not to see that.

On the other hand...at least he's being up front with you. So...is he good? think you can abide by these rules he's set down and be the play thing he wants because he isn't getting any action at home? Think you can lower yourself to the level of a common prostitute and don't mind being used as a recepticle for his seminal discharges?
Am I making this clear enough to you Ronnie? There's no reading between the lines here. No translator needed. Its as plain as the nose on your pretty brown face.

Answer 4

Basicly he want to use you. Thats it. Id stay away, you'll never get another lover if your with this person as you wont have moved on. and also think of his wife, how would you feel in her situation.
Your more than a sex slave, do yourself a favour and get a better man.

Answer 5

BASICALLY what the first answer said...your just his object, his toy , imma put it as bluntly as he said it boy, basically he respects his wife too much to fulfil his dominating fantasies or whatever, and doesn't feel he should through that fantasy at her, so hes looking for someone who he doesn't have to respect, SO he Can get his thrillls, bit piggish, but boii he was being honest and you can't really knock him for that hes not trying to deceive you just take advantage of you with your knowledge

Answer 6

What do you mean, "what is this person saying"? It is pretty obvious to me. He wants to have a physical relationship and nothing more. He doesn't want to leave his wife, he just wants something on the side. He wants you to do anything he wants in bed. Basically, he just wants to use you for his own desires. If you agree to this, there will be no future with him. He will only call you when he wants something.

Answer 7

Ah, exactly as it says. He wants you as his sex slave but that is it. He is into bondage or some other form of S&M. Be very careful. This type of person will not take kindly to any threats to himself or his family security. He sounds sociopathic.

Answer 8

Basically, in simple words. He is a player, he wants to use you, he has an ego, he is over-confident and disrespectful.

I think you need to call his wife and show her this note. Its the right thing to do. Ask yourself, if you were in this situation, would you want somebody to tell you?

Don't let him play you for a joke, your brighter than that.

Answer 9

If you're happy with being used, getting picked up & put down when the fancy takes HIM......then what he wants is nothing short of a whore in the bedroom & someone that can keep her mouth shut at all times.............if it's not what you want.........tell him to jump out of the top window.................make sure he puts his nappie on first...........don't want too much mess do we?

Answer 10

He is saying he is married, wants to cheat on his wife, wants a sex slave, only wants to be with you when it's convenient for him, blah, blah, blah, blah! Just a talking head.

Do yourself a favor, don't answer his emails. He is a rotten person and eventually karma will catch up with him.