My gf is 14 and is 4 months. Should I tell her to take the baby back .I'm to young??????

Answer 1

You better stand up and be a man and take care of that baby and your young girlfriend 14 isn't very old and she is going to have a very ruff life because you couldn't pull out fast enuf or wear a condom.

as for her taking the baby back you shouldn't of put it in her. your life is ruined.

Answer 2

Ok, so I'm assuming you are also 14, or close to that age, and I'm also assuming the baby is 4 months old. I am also assuming that you have costudy of the baby. What a pickle you've gotten ur self into. First thing you need to do is sit down and talk to your parents and the girls parents. You and the girl have made your mistakes, now the most important thing is, that the baby is being properly taken care of. This is a huge problem and it needs to be taken care of immediately. Do you want to "give the baby back" because you think youre too young, or is it because you can't handle the responsibility? You need to stop, take a deep breath and look at your baby. Do you love your baby? Do you want to protect your baby? How did you end up with the baby in the first place? You are both very young, and have a lot of growing up to do, and as sad as it is, now is the time to do it. A baby is not a toy, its not an accessory. That child is going to grow up one day. Do you want him/her to remember you as a good father, or as an absent father? Do you want him/her to grow up and think back on their child hood as happy, or miserable? Maybe you and the girl can work out a plan that would make it easier on the both of you. For example, you have the baby for three days out of the week, and she has the baby for the other four (or the other way around) I know how hard it is, i was a teenage parent too, but you'll be okay if you just remember that that baby loves you with all its heart, and trusts you to make sure that he/she is loved, fed, well cared for and brought up feeling safe.
Now if my assumptions are wrong and the girl is 4 months pregnant, then the same advice follows, only now you have 5 months to work things out. Its not too late to consider adoption. Its also not too late to consider that this could be the worst and best thing that ever happened to you. Just make sure her parents know shes pregnant, many girls have died because they didnt get to the doctor to have prenatal care. Dont be afraid to talk to your parents or another trusted adult. You can also go to a church for help. There are government programs out there that you can use temporarily to survive (medicaid, WIC, foodstamps, child care assistance, welfare, etc.) until you are able to finish school and get a job. Dont wait, because this baby (born or not) is depending on you and your girlfriend. If you keep this baby, you are going to be his/her daddy. The most important man in their life. Talk to someone and make sure that your girlfriend knows you are behind her 100%, even if you dont think you can be, you have to try your best to give her support. this is a very scary thing. Her whole body is changing, and she may not know what to expect. Read books, look up information on the internet and discuss everything together, so you are both equally informed.
Good luck sweet heart, I hope for the baby's sake and you and your girlfriends sake that everything works out. You should be fine is your parents can help you..... Best wishes.

Answer 3

Well, lol, taking the baby back is not an option. 14 is young, but as long as both of you have great support systems, everything should work out fine. And, look on the bright side, when your child turns 21, you'll be young enough to enjoy it with em.

Answer 4

She's 4 months pregnant?? It's too late sweetie...can't go back after 3 months. Sorry...guess you both have to grow up early and pay the price for acting so irresponsible at such a young age. You should both check out Planned Parenthood for help and you both need to talk to your parents if you haven't already. Best of luck and don't be a butthead and back out...you wanted to be a man with her, now is the time to step up and truly act like one!

Answer 5

Take the baby back where? If she is pregnant, she is pregnant...there is no going back. No "refund" policy. You guys should start thinking about adoption, because you are right, 14 is WAY too young.

Answer 6

Last I checked you can't return a baby LOL

Maybe adoption should be considered...14 is too young to be taking on that kind of lifelong commitment.

Answer 7

Where do you want her to take the baby?? Maybe you should have thought about that "I'm too young" thing before you decided to be a big man and have sex. Get over yourself and start supporting your girlfriend, it's time for you to GROW UP!! Babies are a blessing.

Answer 8

Sorry, Son, but you can't take babies back. 14 is too young to be a mom. Have you considered adoption?

Answer 9

hey j be me how could you tell yur girl to take it back if yu very well contributed for the baby as well even if it was not planned so now i suggest yall talk about this solution of yours because arent you to young to be having sex in the first place
so next time you do anything of such magnitude you should think about the consequences! you should also tell this to your girlfrnd and next time yall should think before springing into any action or at least use protection.

Answer 10

What do you mean "take it back"?? Didn't you pay attention in sex ed?? The only way to get rid of the baby is to kill it..do you want to do that? If she doesn't want to she doesn't have to..you should've thought about all this before deciding to have sex!! Maybe you'll grow up a little from this experience.