Your weight should have no bearing on a guy's attraction for you...
I'm NOT tall, dark, nor handsome, but there's been plenty of women that "seem" to be attracted to me, and I believe it's because I rarely wear underwear, but when I do, it's usually something "unusual..." (just kidding)
Rule number one in life...
Attractiveness in a person is "subjective..."
Personally, I think Pamela Anderson looks like a plumpy female version of a younger Don Knotts...and Brittany Spears looks like her face never got past the "infant" look...
But the rest of the world seems to go ga! ga! about them...
One day you'll meet a guy that thinks "YOU'RE" really attractive, and he'll be glad he found you...ALL of you...
Hang in there...
The best things come to those who wait...
2007-05-08 09:49:52
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answered by Anonymous
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I am also a plus size gal. I haven't ever had a problem finding guys. I'm not so big that I can't run around and play a little. Great personality too, blond and dress nice. You will have a guy come up to you one day and tell ya how great looking you are.
It'll happen when you least expect it. Out of the blue when you are not looking. Wham! You will be the most beautiful girl to him. Put yourself into the action and don't sit on the side lines. Be a player. Your day will come.
2007-05-08 16:49:52
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answered by peach 6
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Jazz~ I think that it is awesome that you have great self esteem. I think that being plus size is great, the important factor, is that you are healthy. Healthy does not mean 110 lbs. A real man will come along, and accept you for who you are. The guys that are superfical and want a skinny size 2 girl, is really not a man that you want to be with anyway. Could you imagine having to worry about your weight all the time? Believe me, it is not worth it. Do not sacrifice your self worth. He is out there, and soon enough, he will find you. =) Take Care...
2007-05-08 16:47:13
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answered by Miss. American Nightmare 4
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Too be honest, the majority of guys (around 80%) like medium sized girls. Not too big, not too small. We like to have something to grab onto, and something there that we can hug, not a sack of bones. Me personally, if i had to choose between size 2 and a plus sized girl, i'd take the plus size. BUT i prefer medium. Only a scale from 1-10, 1 being anorexic and 10 being sumo wrestler, i like girls around 6.5. Not too big, not too small, but a tad on the bigger side.
2007-05-08 16:42:58
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answered by §†reet R¥dA 6
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Honey, there are lots of guys attracted to plus size girls. If your a teenager it may be a little harder to find guys your own age that are - but trust me there are loads of men out there that go for the plus size girls.
2007-05-08 16:43:26
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answered by I Like Stories 7
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Absolutely. My roomie is a 5'9" size 18. And a plus-size model...it is amazing to walk into a room and watch everyone look at her in awe. It is all about your confidence and how you carry yourself. The grass is always greener honey. Guys that want the size zero anorexic people won't see you for who you really are:)
2007-05-08 16:42:43
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answered by erin 2
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More cushion for the pushin... :) Sorry, I had to! Curves are a good thing that size 2 girls don't have... You will find a good man girl I promise you that! Keep in mind that Marilyn Monroe was a size 14. :)
2007-05-08 16:42:39
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answered by RobbinATL 3
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All i can really say is all guys have different types of women that they want. Just wait and some guy will want to go out with you sometime. Just be yourself.
2007-05-08 16:42:03
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answered by Anonymous
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big is ok, as long as everything is firm and in place. i think the average woman's size in America is like a 12 now anyways.
2007-05-08 16:42:26
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answered by The-Magic-8-Ball 3
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My boyfriend does. I use to be close to 300 lbs, when he first met me, and he found me very attractive. I had alot of people find me attractive when I was big. Good luck, hopefully you find someone who will love you for who you are, not what you look like :)
2007-05-08 16:43:45
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answered by dstrbd4godsmack 2
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