what would you do part 2!!!!?

Question

part 2 off the question i just asked.
she has been seeing a psyciatrist for ages now, well she was until they said there was no more they could do and will get a councilor which is about 8 months waiting list, she is on anti depressents but not really working too well.... i took her back to the docs last week and they have said really its down to her to sort it as medication wont stop her from cutting herself!!! so after getting help we still argue and we both dont know what to do which is why ime asking what you would do? so for the people who missed what its about you will have too look for part one!!! thanks all

Answer 1

If you really want to help her, then understand love. Yea you've got love for her, but by the very nature of this question, you don't love her. You didn't say one darn thing about why she cuts herself, why she doesn't trust you, why she is such a mess. See in order for you to be that magic man you need to take a LONG walk in her shoes, see it from her side, UNDERSTAND your lady. You picked her, you claim love for her, yet your treating this like its her problem. ITS BOTH YOUR GUYS PROBLEMS LOVER BOY. So what you need to do is sit that lady down and you guys start talking about your lives, EVERYTHING! Depression is a raging problem in our society, because you can't cure it! You can only learn to cope with it, and you taking her to the darn drug doctor, and comeing on here asking the question like that shows me neither one of you has the even the faintest hint of whats really making her do these things..... so ether you start relating with this lady or no more "relate" tionship, get? And understand you need to understand her or this is going no were fast, maybe find yourself a nice simple girl that likes puppies? Realize inorder to have a deep and meaningful relationship you need a friendship at the core, and just saying I love you, cooking supper, taking out the trash, dealing with her, and not trying to help her grow, is not being a friend.... so talk, relate, then you can call it love....