I know most women don't know what they do want in a mate until they see it. But, what don't they want in a mate?
What don't you want in your mate?
2007-05-08 08:48:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Women will say that that they're looking for their TRUE SOULMATE. What they mean is someone who will give them attention whenever they want it regardless of the man's own needs. What they DON'T want is someone who stands up for himself, and tries to have a life outside of "Couple-Time."
2007-05-08 12:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I want a man I can completely trust. One that loves his children so much he would do anything for them. A man that will not get trashed and act stupid. I want a kind loving man that will always put his family before his friends in every way. There are so many jerks out there that will cheat on their wife at the drop of a hat.
2007-05-08 15:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright here is my short list.
1. Do not lie to me.
2. Do not cheat
3. Do not treat me like a piece of sh*t.
4. Never hit me
5. Do not play mind games
6. You better not be selfish
7. Better not be inconsiderate
Many more but i have to go now so bye!
2007-05-08 15:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by Kasja 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want someone who loses his self indiividuality because he is in a relationship with me. I think your realtionship will be much stronger if you respect the person your with. You have to remember that the person you are involve with is still their own person and just because they get involve in a relationship doesn't mean they should stop doing the things that they normally do just because you can't accept it.....If that is the case, then you shouldn't be with that person....
2007-05-08 16:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could live with out the temper, abusive behavior, bad manners, improper hygiene, alcohol/drug abuse, There are too many to list, I have a longer list of what I dont want as compared to what i do want.
2007-05-08 15:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman. I don't WANT a "mate" at all.
2007-05-08 17:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't want a free-loader. A man who wants the money to come to him rather then him going to it.
Dont want a man with no goals.
Don't want a man who clings on to his youth when its time to let go.
Don't want a man who is verbally, and physically abusive.
2007-05-08 15:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by bittersweet1435 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont want someone that cares about materlistic things and how much money is in the bank .... i dont want someone that shares different religious/spiritual views than i do ..... i dont want someone that isn't family orientated ... i dont want someone that smokes and drinks .... i dont want someone that is either serious all the time or funny all the time .... etc...
2007-05-08 15:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they dont want you to be discusting, not polite, and all the pther things that you boys due! beleif me im a girl!
good luck! maria :)
2007-05-08 15:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by maria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heat and cash
2007-05-08 15:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋