It has been going on for 4 years and I have never been able to catch her. He knows that she takes the money but we can never catch her. I have spoke to her about it but she just says she didn't do it. Sometimes it's as small as $3.00 to one time it was my whole pay check. I hide my purse everytime she comes over. About the only time she can find it is when I lock it in my car trunk. She hit it last Sunday when we had dinner for everyone at my home, I was so busy I forgot to put my purse away. I am to a point where I do not want her in my home ever again, But I am seeing her father and he wants to see the grandkids!
2007-05-08 08:37:41 · 12 answers · asked by Swtp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Buy you an inexpensive nanny cam from somewhere like Bestbuy and set it up in the house where no one knows about it, not even the BF or daughter. Set it to record and leave your purse out where she will grab her and once you have your proof show it to her father and if need be take it to the Police and have them deal with her too. If you don't stop her and her father won't do anything it just leaves the problem to continue.
2007-05-08 08:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Emily M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch see she isn't the one at fault, yea I know she's grown. But that man is riduculous!!!! Totally immature, I mean come on this can't be the only shading, uncaring, irrosponsible thing she does. I thinking ether he had nothing to do with the raising or were talking classic pricess mentiality. But your problems run deeper then this little lady. Also if she treats you guys like this, how do you think those grandkiddos are going to do? If I could think of the single cause it would most likly come down to the classic she got to a certain age and he just washed his hands of her and kicked her out of the house. Something tells me because she lashes out to you, it was because of you she got the old, theres the door treatment. This runs deep what can I say, you can ignore the problem like the rest of society and let her know, that you know, and just keep your purse hidden. Or her and daddy can have an actually conversation about the truth and not the weather....
2007-05-08 08:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe set her up somehow by markign the bills in your purse then after checking your purse and knowing she took the bait ask her for change for a larger bill knowing that you marked the smaller one then call her out on it wehn she offers to cahnge the bill for you. Other than that maybe tell her straight up, listen this only happens when you are around so it leads me to believe you are doing it. If you need money ask me for it, don't just take it upon yourself to help yourself. You might be surprised that it is someone else that is always around at the same time she is and it may not be her, could be one of her kidsd or perhaps her significant other. Not knowing the situation but it could even be your boyfriend since he knows that you blame it on her figures she is going to take the fall for it.
2007-05-08 08:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by tmjgmw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's terrible. I would buy a safe and put it where you think it would be best, make sure you have a good lock or combination and put your valuables there. If you want to bust her on this, then set up survellaince camera without her knowing and bust her on it. Tell her to get a job and make her own freaking money. That's just wrong, can't trust family when they come over.. I wouldn't have them meet at home anymore, I'd arrange a meeting elsewhere. Good luck and stop that thief in it's track.
2007-05-08 08:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would have made him an offer he couldn't refuse a long time ago. I probably would have given the term "shotgun wedding" a new meaning. Since you're nicer than I am and have no other choice, I would call the police and tell them that this guy is running a meth operation. Your daughter might be arrested with this idiot she married, but at least she'll be away from him.
2016-04-01 02:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop keeping it in your purse and start putting it in your
pocket or get a debit card and stop walking aroun with
your entire paycheck in your purse!
2007-05-08 09:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by becky o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her a note in your purse, that should be a nice shock to her when she goes scrounging around for money, and sees that.
2007-05-08 09:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by dvmeli_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he really neads to talk to her about it and maby he should stop her from coming around for awhile or even she should stop coming over at all and if he wants to see her he should maby go to her place or meet out some were else. but he really needs to talk to her about it and tell her to satopo doing it let her kno w that both of you know she is taking it
2007-05-08 11:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by kirsty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would switch pocketbook and put something very nasty in there, therefore the next time she put her hands in your purse. She'll have a very nice surprise waiting.
2007-05-08 09:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did u tell ur bf about this....I think her behavior can cause some problem in u and him dating...Why should u have to hide ur money...he needs to talk to her...she needs to stop this
2007-05-08 08:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋