2007-05-08 07:37:55 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah....only if that other woman is his WIFE.
2007-05-08 07:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kimmy 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Now you and I both know that if it were just "work" that was involved here, the fact that you are married and texting instead of calling would never have come to a head here. Be honest with yourself. If it were just work, there wouldn't be a question for you to ask! You answered your own question. If there are your own selfish motives involved, then no, it isn't ok. It is cheating. It is stepping out on the woman that you promised to honor and cherish. Not cool. If there are feelings for this "other woman" you better examine very closely exactly what it is you want out of your marriage, and wether or not it is important enough to you to go find work somewhere else. If it is important enough, you will decide that work/ your female client can take a backseat, and find yourself someone else to invest your time and interest into that won't be a threat to your marriage. Good luck and God Bless.
2016-04-01 02:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a fine line between this and what happens next. If this woman is single she's bound to see it as flirtation and as she is the forbidden fruit it'll all just be a little too temtping and a recipe for disaster. Spend your energy on complimenting your partner, when you have thoughts like this -text her instead. But if all you think about is every other womans skirt and a glimpse of paradise under neath then perhaps you're in your current relationship/marriage for the wrong reasons and either talk to her and tell her what it is you want from the situation or move on to something more to your taste
2007-05-08 07:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by matt b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure, as long as it's ok for a married woman to text message another man...for example"nice abs"
2007-05-08 07:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question, then it's probably not ok. Otherwise, you wouldn't have to wonder about it.
Another way to look at it -- would your wife be ok with it? Would you send that text message with her standing right there while you were doing it?
And would you be ok with it if your wife was going around sending text messages to other guys saying "nice pants"?
2007-05-08 07:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by harri188 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not consider this ok for a married man. Although it's harmless flirting, he has no business texting another woman for whatever reason!
2007-05-08 07:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why would he have another woman's phone number to begin with?
And then the old line of complementing her on what she is wearing?
I think the male is up to no good and time to nip this in the bud before it gets out of hand.
2007-05-08 07:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wonder how that very same married man would react to a text on his wife`s phone, saying something like. "Hey those trousers your wearing today are a mighty fine fit."
2007-05-08 07:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by tempest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not ok because you are being unfaithful to your wife.
Why would you want to flirt with anyone other than your wife?
Marriage is support to be a very loving time for two people.
So it is not ok to flirt with other women over the internet.
2007-05-08 08:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by shakleebaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. If it was just a general comment then why not just say it. If you've taken the trouble to text a compliment then you're obviously expecting some return...
2007-05-08 07:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by Poison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Man talk for nice skirt is "Hey, bend over and let me see if you are wearing panties cause I'm hard just thinking about it."
2007-05-08 07:44:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋