So now that we have decided to get a divorce due to my husbands infidelity...it seem like now more than ever i want to have sex bad...i always have before too but he would always push me away...i know im not going to do anything bad but im just frustrated cause even though i have all these bad thoughts of him being with someone else i still want sex...what can i do?
2007-05-08 07:24:12 · 18 answers · asked by ღCCღ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The only reason you're thinking that is because, like him or not, he is familiar to you, and at this point in time, your a bit fearful of the new and unknown. When you put things into perspective and see the path you'll be on leading towards the processing of your divorce, you may be a feeling a little less randy and more realistic. Your whole life is going to change, your address, your finances, and all that other stuff will be the last thing on your mind. Relax and prepare for your divorce.
2007-05-08 07:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Go out to a classy bar, find the best looking guy you can get and bring him home for a few hours of hard core sex! That should hit the spot!
Just make sure to use protection....
2007-05-08 14:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by The Undeletable Larry Class! 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't give him the pleasure of being with you anymore. He's had his thing in some other girls NaStY cooch... no tellin if he has a disease now... Go get tested & then find someone 2 treat u right... until u do find some1 get u a B.O.B. (battery opperated boyfriend) LOL! good luck & take him for all hes got!!
2007-05-08 14:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girlfriend , when you get the answer let me know. Today we decided to get a divorce as well, because he cheated 3yrs ago, and I can't get over it, but I too still want to have sex with him, some people would call us stupid, dumb. I was and still inlove with my husband. Good luck
2007-05-08 14:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by confused 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
most of these answers are ridiculous! you probably still have very strong feelings for him and you want to prove to him that you are the one he really wants because thats what you truelly want to believe its not really about the physical act of sex but the emotional / mental bond that you fear that you have lost. because sex is out there you could go get that if that physical act is all you wanted, but what you are doing is equating sex with feelings of love.
2007-05-08 14:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sexd isn't everything sugar cakes. You might want to reach down deeper into your soacial aspects of life.
2007-05-08 17:09:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obstain! It's not worth the trouble, wait until you care for someone and don't give him any, no matter what! You know how to take care of yourself.
2007-05-08 14:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not be that sick of him to be thinking about that. Just imagine that his thing was inside someone else. Then think about sleeping with him. Let him go and go find someone else. Sorry.
2007-05-08 14:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by Cassandra 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Put the washer on spin cycle and lean against it until your divorce is final. Then, use protection.
2007-05-08 14:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I like what "Hot Coco Puff" said. If he's pushing you away then it's over for him.
2007-05-08 14:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋