my x is on remand for doing wrong to my children his there till the 9 july wen his bk up, i feel his family will blame me for putting him there wen ive tried for 18months to get him right but his violent temper got stronger and stronger & his one goal was to take me away from my children as he said they dont deserve me only he does, wen ive told him my family come 1st esp my children, now im just starting to close the gap between my family and me that he caused, i can play music again have laughter and talk to friends and people and have no fear he'l be going of his head that im talking to people and i can be my bubbley self again, i just wish i cud ask why he did those nasty things to my children.
2007-05-08 07:16:47 · 11 answers · asked by A A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thats easy he didn't love anything but himself. Now count off all ties to him, he is dangerous. Not because he is a monster, but because he is still a kid throwing temper-tamperins when ever he doesn't get his way. Trust me his reasoning is that simple, he'll hide it by blaming you, but since your new to this, thats how you tell how immature a person is... they always blame everyone else. So yea you found yourself a grown-up kid and it almost cost you your family, I think you've learned enough from him..... the best thing you can do is make as much distance as possiable.
2007-05-08 07:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the prosecutor's office to see if the locality has some type of system that will keep you up-to-date with his current status. They may have a system that will call you with a date of release to warn you ahead of time. He sounds like he could elevate his violence so you may want to get a restraining order, if you haven't already. If you can find out the release date, I would make it a point to be away from home with the kids on that day (maybe a few days). If that is not possible, call a friend over for the day who can provide protection, yes I mean armed and ready, maybe an off-duty officer if you know one. These situations can go badly in the blink of an eye. Please be prepared and do not assume anything.
I only hope that his cell mate Bubba teaches him some humility while he is in the gray-bar motel. I will keep good thoughts for you and wish you all the best.
2007-05-08 07:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by steveheremd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He did those nasty things to your children because he has a mental problem. You are not a doctor, and you cannot prescribe medicine, which is what he needs at this point. Let the prison system help him. You take care of your children, that is a lot of responsbility. You don't need any more responsibility than you already have.
2007-05-15 11:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by maestra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break ties and get an injunction to stop him coming near you and your kids he may even try to snatch them so make schools etc aware of this..maybe if you have unsolved questions you want answers for visit him and ask whilst there are guards about at least you can then put a close to this if this is what you want and try to move on but do seek help as he may not be to happy when he is released.take care of yourself and your kids as im sure your doing all you can and have done to protect hem and yourself.no man is worth losing family for they are with you for life men come and go.good luck hun and wish you and your family all the best for the future.xx
2007-05-08 10:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by easty90210 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm an atheist, and that i'm not that indignant by way of the "below God" factor to the pledge. and you're good: You *shouldn't* be prevented from asserting it, in basic terms as we could constantly not be *forced* to assert it, could our emotions on the undertaking be accurately solid. yet posting the ten Commandments in a courthouse is somewhat too lots. The company Clause of the U. S. shape reads: "Congress shall make no regulation respecting an company of religion...or prohibiting the loose workout thereof." To positioned up certainly one of those blatantly Christian checklist of precepts and injunctions able it is nominally unaware of non secular persuasion in basic terms isn't cool. I agree that, frequently, the ten Commandments rather are not a undesirable place to commence in case you're seeking to steer a ethical existence. of path, "Thou shalt have not have been given the different gods till now me" is amazingly superfluous in that regard; and, all issues seen, it is probable the area of the ten Commandments that i might have the main important subject with if I observed it in a court docket of regulation. "Wow...those adult males are gonna be out to get me! i don't have self assurance of their God!" it is in basic terms pointless.
2016-10-04 14:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by zeitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can find out. if you know where he is at and his number and maybe when he will be out just to be sure. honestly who care about what they think. if hes beating on you and stuff you should get a restraining order and full custody of your kids. i been there and as for me. i will never let a man put their hands on me in front of my kids. you just need to be stronger. you're right your kids come first. he needs to be kicked on the curb and have the most precious thing there is in life taken away from him. he needs alot of counseling and prayer
2007-05-15 11:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut all ties with this monster. Get an injunction to stop him coming anywhere near you and get on with your life with your children. no-one deserves to have nasty things done to them especially children. Good luck.
2007-05-15 08:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by Caveman's daughter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you & your children a favour stay away from him.He is no good.Make a new life for you & your kids.Good Luck
2007-05-15 04:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by Dekka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he did them things because he is a horrible person you know it I know it end off the best think you can do id keep as far away from him as you can no good will gome from raking up past hurt
2007-05-15 04:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a letter and wait for a reply
2007-05-15 09:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋