Love lost and found??if hes just telling me what i want to hear,whats his motive?

Question

Love lost and found??
The guy that ive been wanting to start a relationship with for almost 2 years finally expressed 2 me the most romantic things that a woman could hear.Our relationship so far has been purely sexual and he never wanted something more.i was actuallu chasing him to meet and i was keeping in touch.But now he told that im the most important woman in his life and he could imagine spending his life with me and so many other things...But when i asked,so does that mean u want us to be together?he said lets take one step at a time and he didnt say anything specific about meeting up.im so excited by what he said and im really stressed about whats gonna happen next...he sounded very sincere although there were many contradictions on the facts and his view of them.for example he wouldnt admit that it was a sexual relationship and i was chasing him but he says that he knew like i was the one and hes still around...any advice??

Answer 1

right now it seems like he is just playing a game with you and saying what he thinks you want to hear so he can get what he wants for the time being, actions speak louder than words all all this actions are showing you is that he likes to have sex with you and nothing else at the moment, if he really wanted a relationship then he would have made that clear from the beginning and not put you needs of wanting a partnership with him on hold , he is just out for what he wants and doesnt care about whether you want a relationship and he knows as long as he tells you what you want to hear then that will keep you around....

Answer 2

Yea your smart! And you've got a big heart! So your going to go to heck with this guy! Good Luck! See weather or not he is geniune he is stangnating the growth of the relationship. Until he can talk to you in a way that satisfies your insecurities, well he is just gaming you. Your right it is a sexual relationship and the fact is his actions would show you more then his words would. And his actions say, I'm happy were I'm at, don't go anywhere. So your right to be upset because geniune love forces the relationship to move forward. Seems he is getting his, now are you getting yours? Just remember words with out action are BS!

Answer 3

Sounds to me like he is playing you. My suggestion is to kick him to the curb., but first to go to wereworthit.com get one of there items that says I'm Worth It which I hope will give you more confidence in yourself and not let someone take advantage of you.