I have a question reguarding male sexuality and need help as to what to do?

Question

Iam 30 M I have been for the last 6 moths having problems reaching orgasm/ejaculation this is an embrassing thing for me soo no clowning around I need straight answers only please...well I have been to the doctor had tests done and they cant figure out why I cant orgasm.ejaculate...so they tried this shot that works,but the thing is I have to have the shot every 3 months thats what my urologist told my doctor who I go to now I really cant afford the shot its 350.00 and not covered by insurance does anyone know what I can do?..Iam really stuck here and the shot is medically necessary to avoid other things medically from happening...soo if anyone knows what I can do get back with me!!{serious replies only please}

Answer 1

Hi Erich,
I take it you had no problems ejaculating before this started, and did you have anything significant happen to you in that time that could have caused you untold stress and anxiety?
I have a couple bits of advice for you, 1,Think back to what may have been a contributing factor, i.e stress, anxiety. 2, learn some relaxation techniques before you either make love to your partner or masterbate. 3, try not to be too worried about reaching the climax as this can put worry onto you causing you to be unable to ejaculate. 4, rather than paying for these shots why not try a herbal remedy, they would probably be a lot cheaper and a lot more pleasant then getting a shot. Most of all enjoy what it is that you are doing, have fun and you will soon orgasm again.

Answer 2

Orgasm generally comes from the mind!? Have you tried different partners? Sometimes the more you worry.. the worse it becomes. Try abstinence for a short while..there's nothing like the forbidden for making something more wanted? Relax and dont worry and unless there is some proven medical reason.. it will come back when you feel properly excited agin? Now its become a power struggle between yourself and you!

Answer 3

I found this paragraph.

Retarded orgasm is a very difficult sexual dysfunction to treat. This condition involves the inability of the patient to achieve orgasm (ejaculation) in a timely manner and in severe cases men fail to achieve orgasm on any occasion. As men age, there is an increase in the time it takes to achieve ejaculation, however, in some men this increase may lead to the inability to ejaculate within a 30 minute time period from the initiation of sexual stimulation. The causes of this condition include the use of certain anti-depressant medications (Prozac, Zoloft, Paxil, Luvox, Celexa), sensory neurologic disorders affecting penile sensation (as may occur with diabetic nerve damage), and psychological disorders (this is frequently seen in older men in their early experiences following divorce or being widowed). Finally there are men in whom there is no clear etiology for this problem and these are believed to have either a physiological or idiopathic form of this condition. There does not exist any pharmacologic strategy for these patients although there are anecdotal reports of the use of the anti-depressant buproprion. If patients are significantly bothered by this problem, as many of the sufferers are, the use of penile vibratory therapy has the ability to permit patients to achieve orgasm. The results are better in patients in whom there is a delay in orgasm as opposed to those who have a consistent complete failure to achieve orgasm(see link)

However I think if your seeking medical help that any advice given should be tried without consulting your doctor.

Physical (organic) anejaculation, which includes retrograde ejaculation (vide supra), can occur due to neurogenic and obstructive causes. Many of the neurogenic causes are similar to those outlined earlier. It must be reiterated that diabetes is an important cause(see second link)

You might want to google anejaculation as it known.
The second link talks about ejectulation problems in more detail and offers advice. And also talks about treatment for the disorder.

Hope that helps

Answer 4

Try googleing the medical condition or looking it up in online medical databases, maybe they'll have alternative courses of treatment or medication. It might help you understand more about the condition and therfore make it easier to deal with. Hope this helps..

Answer 5

Many of male disorders are due to psychological problems.Mainly due to lack of confidence or suspecting ones own capability to satisfy woman.These are baseless and should be removed from mind.Even size is immaterial.There are many herbal formulations to cure male sexual problems.Herbal Viagra or MUSLI extract will cure similar sex problems .
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Answer 6

it is a really hard answer. it depends on what the shot was for one. My thought would be low testosterone. That being said there are testosterone creams and gels you can order. they are way cheaper than 350. Also you didn't mention but if you are on anti depresants, that will hurt you too.

Answer 7

I'm so sorry you are having this problem. I am a woman but understand how traumatic it is for you. Could you ask your Doc to refer you to a sex counsellor or hypnotherapist? You also need an understanding female to help too. Wishing you all the best and hope your problem is soon solved.

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Answer 9

the mandatory heterosexual male can proceed to exist fairly honestly for an afternoon without transforming into a drooling fool. in case you're suggesting in the different case no guy able to duty should be in a position to spotlight his interest.

Answer 10

It all depends on the type of sex you're have, I guess. How long have you been having the problem?. Are you attracted to the women? Can you masturbate? Try other means of sex? Nedd more info to help!!!