I am living in chicago!
i have new roomate who i think is gay!!!
as we have double bed i have obsereved that he trys to touch me
he too drinks,watches porns, masturbates etc.....
please help me
what should i do
2007-05-08 05:31:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you are sleeping in the bed with him and are wondering about HIS behavior LOL
2007-05-08 05:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not quite sure what's happening here. You share a double bed? Well, first of all, it's hard for two people not to have some kind of physical contact when sharing a double bed. And also, almost every straight guy I've ever met drinks, watches porn, and masturbates.
Maybe you should find a way to not have to sleep together, and ask him to please satisfy his "personal needs" in private.
2007-05-08 12:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by EnglishRose21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you pick up your roomie at a bar near Clark and Diversey? Get yourself a large body pillow that fits down the center of the bed. Honestly discuss a few of your boundary issues, likes and dislikes, and have the courage to enforce your choices for yourself as well as him. Above all STOP GIVING DOUBLE MESSAGES.
2007-05-08 16:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by Fr. Al 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you sharing a double-bed with someone you don't appear to know? Why don't you tell him if he makes you feel uncomfortable by touching you! It's his decision what he does behind closed doors, i.e. masturbation, but it sounds like you guys need some frickin privacy from each other! Who shares a double bed with someone they don't even know?
2007-05-08 12:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by allears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move or ask him to leave, if he is bothering you. -Or- Make some rules, have a talk.
You both really need your own spaces. Even if it's in the same room, on opposite ends!!! The roommate thing can only truly work if you both have your own rooms, and then it's hard!!
2007-05-08 12:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sleep in the same bed? and you think you're roomate is gay. Hmm sounds weird.
If you don't like what he's doing, kick him out.
2007-05-08 12:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by ron s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No straight guy would want to sleep in a bed with another guy anyways. That should have been a clue right there.
2007-05-08 12:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by chicory bean 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two guys in a double bed in Chicago - lololol
You cannot get any gayer than that, unless your duvet is pink.
Is it pink? It wouldn't surprise me.
2007-05-08 12:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Pisslam 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm first determine if you are "gay" and then decide if this is a roomate with benefits
or
realize that "if" he is realize at least he won't be hitting on your girls:)
Seriously thought.... get a separate bedroom
2007-05-08 12:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
live with it..
who knows.. ur best friend could be gay and in the closet because he doesn't know how u act.. if anything tell him that ur straight and that ur not interested...
dont be a ***** about it..
live with it..
were all not like you
2007-05-08 12:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by penutbutterfurby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight guys drink, watch porn, and masturbate, too...Now if he is really trying to touch you, get the hell outta there!
2007-05-08 12:35:30 · answer #11 · answered by Amanda 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋