I have dreams about this guy I once knew. I often think about other guys. Im alittle flamboyent. But I have had sex with girls. I like girls, etc. But my favorite show is Queer As Folk. I loved "Brokeback Mountain". I love the logo channel. I dont know. Im confused. BTW, I took three test on the net. One said I'm gay, One Siad I'm str8, and One said I'm Bi(Sorry for any misspellings)
2007-05-08 05:21:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Desmond, you are far too young to worry whether you are gay or not...time will give you the answer, and stop worrying about labels. You are what you are, no more, no less. This, in reality, matters only to you. Please do not try to prove you are straight if you have doubts....far too many young guys marry to prove something to themselves, and all they do is hurt an innocent woman. Date you you like, let nature take its course. Good luck
2007-05-08 05:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look under your genitals. There should be a stamp: "GAY"!!!
Ha ha... just kidding.
You are young. You don't have to decide right this second! So what if you are? You are only resiting it because of the negative junk our society puts on gays. That's part of the learning and accepting process for gays, is not only coming to terms with themselves, but finding a healthy self esteem in a sea of negativity.
The best thing for you or any young gay guy is to be gentle with yourself, and slowly investigate things.
Get counseling. The LGBT community center here in SD, offers free counseling. Maybe there is a place there near you to get free counseling. There are also youth groups, and other men's coming-out groups.
I know this. The sooner you start accepting yourself by going from what you feel inside and growing outward and stop listening to outside negativity regarding homosexuality, the sooner you will be on the road to happiness!!
I think you already know... Now just get off the fence! :)
2007-05-08 05:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date the people you like. If you find yourself dating guys and girls ... than your Bi. If you find yourself overwhelmed with the need to be around penises ... than you're gay. If, and I can't wrap my mind around this, you find yourself with girls ... you would be hetero. Hooking up shouldn't cause you stress. If it feels good ... run with it. Dream and fantasize about everyone ... ride the wave.
oh.... and Brokeback Mountain was one of the worst movies I ever had the misfortune of wasting two hours on.
2007-05-08 05:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by ElvisMp49D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your instinct. If you are attracted to women, then you are attracted to women; if you're not, you're not. The movies and TV shows you watch do not determine your sexual orientation. It's how you feel inside and who you're attracted to.
Nobody gets to choose whether they are gay or straight. And an online quiz certainly isn't an accurate assessment. You just need to listen to your heart and find out what you want. Good luck!
2007-05-08 05:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by EnglishRose21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i must say.. you cant tell your sexual preference by the shows you watch sorry. also.. you may be bi. if you like girls, are attracted to girls and like boys and are attracted to guys you may be bi.. have you ever had sex with a guy? if you haven't then you should so you know who you are. you may like sex with both but lean toward one or the other. or if you have sex with a guy you may like it so much you dont want to have sex with girls.. then you will know who you are
2007-05-08 05:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by THE-KNoW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at gay porn on the internet. If you get aroused you are definitely gay. It does sound like you are teetering around on the gay side of the sexuality rainbow though.
2007-05-10 05:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Corey D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are Bisexual but you may be leaning more towards the gay side lately.
2007-05-08 05:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Don't stress over it, you are what you are, maybe your straight maybe your gay or maybe your bi, you will work in out, take care
2007-05-08 05:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by pete m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur probably not gay, ur probably not even bisexual. mostly bicurious and straight. and dreams are dreams, nothing that prevanlant.
2007-05-08 05:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by bunnygrl43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are doubting your sexuality maybe you are bisexual.
2007-05-08 05:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by Kamy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋