he felt a lot of pain , what i can do for the next time to do not hutr him...
2007-05-08 04:37:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Use a lot of lubrication, but it will hurt until he gets use to it. Tell him that he has to relax, because if he tenses up he will it will hurt worse. Don't have sex on top of the pain, let him recover completely. Between that process try other things to get each other off. Oral sex, rum shots, mutual masturbation you all might find something you really like!
2007-05-08 04:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Use a lot of lube, don't get carried and away and slam him. and make sure he's relaxed. It will hurt some until he gets used to it. The more careful and tender you are, the less he will feel pain, and the more pleasure he will feel. Just don't rush things.
And one more thing, Why would you want to have a sexual relationship with someone when there's such an age difference. I can't help but to feel that you're using this child, (yes I called him a child. I'm younger than you and my kids are older than he is. To me that makes him a child.) Find someone your own age. Don't do that to him.
2007-05-08 11:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by ron s 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Use a lot more lube, let him lube himself inside as well before inserting. Wear a condom for sure!
Take your time, and ask him to practice on his own using his fingers so he knows how to relax.
2007-05-08 12:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by Luis 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
first of all you were almost 30 when he was born don't you think you're robbing the craddle? and not just a little bit?
but if your going to do it to him again then use alot of lube and i would suggest you not bang it till he gets used to it. go very slow. i'm a female and don't like to get it that way for that very reason guys wanna bang. i would tell you not too but that's your choice. i can't choose for you but i would say it's not a good idea to mess with someone that much younger than you. just personal opinion though.
2007-05-08 11:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by kaluah96 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I suggest you switch places quickly, and you will find your answer. You were too fast, too rough, and in general, a very bad lover....Personally, I cannot deal with first timers..they are always the same...totally lacking in any kind of sense.
2007-05-08 12:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Although he is of legal age, he is still young and may not be completely stable. Next time you get together you need to make sure he understands and is in agreement with what you are about to do and also that both of you understand your relationship. There is also the possibility of STD's you will want to consider and take all precautions consistent with this.
2007-05-08 11:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by randy_plrm 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I find it completely irrelevant to the question to mention your age.
But anyway..just lube it up and go slow.
2007-05-08 12:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay people age doesnt matter good grief!! try uber lube..it works great..but let him heal a bit before you go at it again
2007-05-10 08:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More lube!
2007-05-09 06:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
give him some gummy worms to bite down on
2007-05-08 11:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋