I cheated on my gurl and i can't stop talking to the gurl i cheated with I don't want to lose my gurl or the other gurl so what do i do?
2007-05-08 03:00:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I know you asked a similar question yesterday. Forgive me if I assume, but you seem too young to be dating or cheating but anyway.
Cheating is not about the other person. It's about your self gratification, so in other words, you have to stop being selfish and thinking only of you and what you want. People have feelings and your actions are directly affecting their feelings, all so you can have what you want. That's one perspective and one I faithfully live by.
2007-05-08 03:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to pick which one you want to be with, and let go of the other. If you don't pick soon, they may both find out and dump you.
Also, if you can't be faithful, you may want to look at what makes you unfaithful. Once someone starts being unfaithful, they generally keep doing so, even in a new relationship.
2007-05-08 03:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by ItsJustMe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop talking about them to each other lol
in the end it'll come crashing down so you i suggest end the relationship and just have some fun maybe :)
2007-05-08 03:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by pale_rider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it doesn't really matter....you cheated once and you'll do it again.
As soon as your gf finds out, she'll make the decision for you.
2007-05-08 03:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a choise it might not be easy but if you dont they will eventully find out and you may end up with neither.
2007-05-08 03:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by cosita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋