but have never married relationship is good everyone says we should get married should we
2007-05-08 02:58:15 · 14 answers · asked by lifesucksforreal2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hello my nmae is rhonda oh no wait a minute my name is chelse today lol nah it was a question for my friend about the little pter and as for my cousin wanting to sleep with my hubby its a joke between us because when im ill with him i tell her to come get her husband and the one about getting married it was for my cousin
2007-05-08 03:29:21 · update #1
you are such a dumb LIAR...first you have a Q about ur husband, then your boyfriend, now your fiance?!!
WTF!!
get HELP!!
2007-05-08 03:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely! If he dies while the children are young the state will ensure that you and the children are taken care of. Without marriage you're on your own. Health insurance is another consideration. You can not be denied health insurance because you are not married. Marriage also give you tax breaks that you will not get as cohabs. Right or wrong, society is design to encourage marriage. You need to think in practical terms when you have children.
2007-05-08 03:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by mediahoney 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, only the two of you can answer that. Don't get married because everyone else thinks you should. Lots of couples have been together for years with or w/o kids and never married (Goldie Hawn, Kurt Russell). It's one of those things to think like "if it's not broken don't fix it" kind of thing. If you're happy with the way things are, then that's how it should be.
2007-05-08 03:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is entirely up to you & you and your fiancee. Getting married and having a wedding are two different things. Marriage is a cimittment between two people - after 9 yrs together and two children, if your relationship is solid - your pretty much married already. having a wedding is just a ceremony to celebrate that comittment.
Not all people see it this way, but maybe if they did - divorce rates would go down.
2007-05-08 03:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by martiek7 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Me & my fiance have been together for 5 years now, but we aren't married yet.. and we have a 12mo old daughter together... The only reason we haven't married yet is because we are waiting until we can actually AFFORD a NICE wedding... we don't want to get married @ the courthouse or anything... but If you can afford a nice wedding (unless it really doesnt matter to you) and you are truly happy in your relationship, then yea your should...
2007-05-08 03:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be nice for the children to have a father's name on the birth certificate; and if something should happen to him you would get survivor's benifits from social security. Unmarried you get squat for the kids and yourself.
2007-05-08 03:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both are happy then who is to say what you should and shouldn't do? next time someone asks you to get married, say "are you paying for the wedding in full?" that will shut them up
2007-05-08 03:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jahpson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my wife for going on 14 years. We have only been married for 9. If it ain't broke.....
2007-05-08 03:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by wavryder ® 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lmao hey dude
2007-05-08 03:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOOK, DON,T LISTEN TO NEGATIVE PEOPLE THAT'S WHY THEIR MARRIAGES ARE IN THE TOILET!!!!! THAT PIECE OF PAPER DOES CHANGE PEOPLE NO MATTER WHAT YOU OR HIM SAY NOW EVENTUALLY IT DOES. IF YOUR GETTING MARRIED FOR THE KIDS SAKE? "DON,T" YOU WILL BE DIVORCED IN 6 MONTHS. MARRY ONLY IF THAT,S WHAT YOU BOTH WANT, NOT EVERYONE ELSE. I AM MARRIED AND VERY HAPPILY THANKS.
2007-05-08 03:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by BECKY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay, I dont know whats going on with you and the first two ladies, but here is my opinion. Why should he buy the cow when the milk was free?
2007-05-08 03:05:28 · answer #11 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋