ok ..my sister in law is 5 years younger to me .
im in india.. i wear all kinds of western clothes jeans etc .
but she doesnt.. she does wear it wehn she "feels" like it,
i have always been pampering her being a good friend but her ways of depprciations (sp?) made ,e a little aloof.
Anyhow as we are in joint family i tried again .. its no biggie but , i gave her few of my "new" outfits to wear . she says yes intially ...but then she "never " wears them,
a. how do i behave in future?
b. what kind of reltionship should i keep with her?
2007-05-08 02:29:22 · 7 answers · asked by barley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she actually herself asked me , to wear one of my trousers ,
i agree with what you all say!
in my housde everyone feels she is way to narrow minded .. i was just trying to "help" if you know what i mean?
thanks!
2007-05-08 02:38:09 · update #1
she actually herself asked me , to wear one of my trousers ,
i agree with what you all say!
in my housde everyone feels she is way to narrow minded .. i was just trying to "help" if you know what i mean?
thanks!
2007-05-08 02:38:13 · update #2
Respect each other's difference's.... Don't force your way on her and ask her- politely- to show you the same respect. GOOD LUCK!
2007-05-08 02:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by NewMom28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not know how to tell you no with out offending you. Just because you are comfortable wearing western clothes, doesn't mean she is. To me you seem a little bit pushy in the fact that you want her to wear these clothes and then become offended when she doesn't. Just stop offering her your clothes. If she wants western clothing, she will either get her own, or ask to borrow yours.
I would still treat her kindly and as a friend. She doesn't have to do everything the same as you to be your friend.
Maybe she has moments when she wants to wear them, but then when it comes right down to it, she's just not comfortable. If she asks and you want to, then give her the clothes, but I wouldn't make an issue of it if she decided not to wear them. Maybe given enough time she will, or maybe she won't, but that has nothing to do with the way you should treat her. She's still a nice person (I assume. You didn't complain about her personality) even if she's old fashioned.☼
2007-05-08 02:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to be offended at her not wearing the outfits you gave her. Maybe she wanted to wear them, but just finds herself to uncomfortable to acually do it. I would make sure she understands that you think she's OK just the way she is. Maybe SHE is feeling pressure to fit into your family.
2007-05-08 02:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by Lady M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your brothers sister-in-regulation however she is NOT yours. The simplest sister in regulation you could have is your brothers spouse....Did you rather want any individual to inform you this? Ok...nuf stated!
2016-09-05 12:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by kenisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her as who she is. Don't go out to pamper her as it might cause alot of misunderstanding between you guys.
2007-05-08 02:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend (sister) and stop trying to buy her. Stop giving her clothes and just be good to her.
2007-05-08 02:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice to her
dont give her anymore cloth its that easy
2007-05-08 02:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋