Hi frds,actually my younger brother got some bad company in his place and he failed also in 11th so i took him far from there but here also 1 week he listen to me and again he started not to listen anybody.if nobody forces him to study he never start studying..i do'nt know what to do.i want to take him in correct track.plz help ....
suggest some job oriented diplome courses for him which he can do after 10th..
2007-05-08 01:16:14 · 11 answers · asked by shalini s 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
HE NEEDS GOOD COUNCILLOR TO DIVERT HIS WAY.
TREAT HIM WITH COOL MIND.
2007-05-08 02:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am happy that you are an open minded person and this probelem is prevelent in all the houses. So nothing to panic.
Seeing TV is not a crime. In your days you might have seen cinema /drama. So is the case with your brother. Sit with him and watch TV with him some good programmes.
Failed in 10th is not lost life. That is also a stepping stone for him to realise the real life provided if it is told to him in right earnestness.
Pl do not make a mountain out of this mole.
2007-05-08 01:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by ravi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your brother? Mine is 14 and he has the same problems. I think sometimes that it's just a phase but then I think that this phase has lasted to long. I don't know where your at but where I am there are classes at our local community college that people can take. They have study groups and things like that too. Maybe if he's around people studying and they can motivate him then maybe he will start to take some initiative. If not, there's always the military.
2007-05-08 01:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by Baby Jax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a brother..exactly the same case as you.
But i finally corrected him by showing him the way of life.
A rebel will never have a good ending , I told my brother that.
In the end, he caused trouble for our family by having gang fights outside >.< .
SO I told him to go out with me for awhile, observe closely our surroundings. The daily work life,troubles without money and think about the situation when you are old.
That should help. My brother finally came to the right side. Anyway if your brother saw this message, I will tell him that you are such a good elder sibling ^^
2007-05-08 01:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the typical story nowadays...no discipline. It is your parents' job to MAKE him study; child rearing is not a matter of negotiation...it is a matter of authority. Your parents, like so many modern parents, have failed miserably. Parents do not give discipline now, because of some preposterous notion that it will hurt their (the child's) self-esteem. It's also very convenient for lazy or irresponsible parents, to blindly follow this philosophy. Parents like these should never have had children. Actually, your question leaves out the parents; are you raising him? If so, you are equally to blame as a bad parent, if he's your responsibility.
2007-05-08 01:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by matthew l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds very much as though he's demanding (through disobedience) that someone show enough love to require adherence to rules of behavior. Children need discipline and control by adults and, when it is absent, they often "act out" or misbehave. It's an odd way of asking for what they aren't getting. Some will go to great lengths in their asking (that's what juvenile jails are all about).
2007-05-08 01:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look up flip flippen. He is a noted educational person who has appeared on talk shows and news shows proving a method that disciplines students to succeed. It works..I'm a teacher who works in a school district where they are instituting his principles. It really works
www.flippengroup.com
He just released a book that could be beneficial...there should be a link to his consulting agency.
2007-05-08 02:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by Elohim's_Son 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your brother is 16-17? At that age, you can't really teach him anything he isn't willing to learn. Probably your best approach is to show him why it's in his best interest - for example, if he wants a bed to sleep in he needs to get passing grades or he needs to have a job and pay rent.
2007-05-08 01:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by Justin H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your expectations from your brother must be high. Send him to tuition, where care is given by teachers is more than in school, college. If you can not afford tution forget every thing.
2007-05-08 01:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by deepak57 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do at this point. Bad parenting all the way around in this case....
2007-05-08 01:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is rebelling...talk to him, let him know that if he continue being disobedient he is the only one who will suffer.
2007-05-08 01:20:35 · answer #11 · answered by Firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋