I am 25 years old; don’t ask how I ended up with 8 kids & all boys as well (I married when I was 16). My wife past away last year in a car accident.
I am a marketing director so I am always on the run to design promotional ads. A nanny handles my 8 kids (I pay her £600 a week; because my kids are disasters).
They are sick, they fight, bully their teacher (My 4 year old asked her to suck his invader 99), don’t do their homework, recently they have started watching porn & start anywhere the horny little bastards. The nanny can only put up with so much. My oldest kid phoned up call girls and told them he was 16 & trashed the whole house.
My secretary deals with all my bills and I got nagged in office when call girls turned up on my bills. I have lost it.
WHAT SHALL I DO?
My boss told me to sell the little buggers on eBay or to the Italians (For a Laugh); now I am hitting on his wife because end of the day they re my kids and I love them
2007-05-08 01:08:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You really need to get your overpaid nanny sorted out - she is doing a very poor job of raising your kids.
If your kids are horny and want a bj then that is the nanny's job to sort out, not the teachers. And they shouldn't need to watch porn - if they want to see that sort of thing then she should be providing that for them. And your son shouldn't need to phone call girls - again, where is that nanny when she is needed?
And what does she do for you? You are having to waste your hard earned money on call girls. When you get home and want some action she should be ready and willing to service you.
I suggest the following -
1. Get the nany sorted out and make it clear what her duties are.
2. If she can't cope then halve her wages and get in a second nanny. That way they can put on some girl-on-girl shows to keep the kids amused and when you get home you can have a threesome with the 2 of them.
Enjoy your life - you are a great Dad and a credit to Britain. Well done.
2007-05-08 01:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give up your job, and be at home for the kids 24/7. You will get benefits, and to be honest, you are paying a nanny to do your job. The kids are still trying to understand the death of their mother. They never see their dad, and they have no respect for any one. You need to seek professional help. See a doctor or health visitor for advise. Be strict with your boys. Take away their privelages, computers etc, untill they learn some manners and respect. Make sure they keep there rooms tidy, and make sure you cook them a decent meal each day. Teach them that they have to behave, and do what the teacher's tell them. Ban them from using the phone, and just make sure you set some ground rules. If you are at home with them and are there before and after school they will see that you care. Ok so you are going to give up a good job, but I think that your kids need you right now. Maybe you could cut down to part time if you do not want to give up totally, but you need to be at home and you need to talk to your kids, properly. Also, make sure they do there homework after school, and that they go to bed at a reasonable time. I would say 7pm for the younger ones, and 9 pm for the teenagers on a school night.Good luck sorting them out, be firm but fair, earn your respect.
2007-05-08 09:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your kids need their father more they need some strictness and routine in their lives, I know your working and you have alot to contend with but you need to take your kids in hand you need some family counciling it will figure out where you are going wrong, do you punish your children eg no tv, you have to take them by hand and sort it out or it will get worse how do you think people see you teachers will think they are being brought up in the gutter. SORT IT OUT. or you will lose them to social services.
2007-05-08 08:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by dareena q 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa...i thought this only happened on TV. u need help big time. what about anyone in ur family. may be u need to take time off work but don't give up ur work, and put ur life n kids in order. tlk to ur GP etc if he/she can recommend some sort of community help. hope this helps!
2007-05-08 10:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by Butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a couple more kids with your boss's wife - then you'll be out of a job too and you'll know what trouble really is like...
2007-05-09 04:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sell this script and maybe they'll make a Lifetime movie out of it.
2007-05-08 08:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Military School, the sooner the better!
2007-05-08 08:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by Dartanion 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is this an outline for a screenplay? Because I'd watch it..
2007-05-08 08:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by RosieGrow 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
cut tv
because of that most of the childrens will be spoiled
and urgently join them ina school comehostel...then the teachers will take care of them...they will be educated see other childrens then they can learn good...................
i think its the best choice
2007-05-08 08:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by ss 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get them into therapy
something is wrong here!
do it now! they are out of Your control or anyone elses
2007-05-08 08:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋