Worried about a lucid dream HELP !!!?

Question

Last night i dream that my uncle told me my mom just died. I wept throughout this dream and i am the most sad person today. Whilst i was weeping in the dream, my mom came and said its time she is going to the stairway because angels are waiting there with a "sweet chariot" to carry her to God.Then i accompanied her to the stairway and even climbed halfway with her then i bid her goodbye and i even tried to see the angels but all i saw was a white cloud and no chariot. Then when i got back home i went to my uncle with my brother to ask if its really true she is dead then i realize i was pregnant unexpectedly and i couldnt make out who is responsible. Then i started wailing again that who will take care of me and my brother and the situation, then I WOKE UP...as at now i am really worried and i tried to call her but her phone is on voice mail-she is in Holland now studyng so perhaps she is in class. I live in Ghana. Help if u can plzz !!!

I FORGOT TO ADD THIS. I RECITED HAIL MARY SEVERAL TIMES WHEN I REALIZED IM IN TROUBLE IN THE DREAM , ON WAKING UP I WAS STILL SAYING HAIL MARY FULL OF GRACE....IN MY MIND

Answer 1

Wow, maybe you are just playing out fears and worries about your mom being so far away, just keep trying to get ahold of her, and you will be re-assured when you do.... Birth and death are transitions, in dream symbolism, I think it more likely that you are growing up, and in becoming pregnant in your dream you are taking on new maturity in your life, and in accompanying your mom to the stairway, you are acknowledging that it is time for you to stand on your own two feet without your mom by your side all the time, and letting her go to live her own life of travel and education, don't worry it isn't about the literal death of your mother, just an end to that phase of her life, you are grown now...... You don't see the chariot in the clouds, because you are looking at an uncertain future for yourself and your mother, and also can't figure out who the father of the baby was for the same reason. Growing up is painful sometimes, and as you mature you need to rely on yourself more, and let your mother get back to having her own life......
Edit on your additional info: Mary is also a mother figure.....

Answer 2

First and foremost, did you actually KNOW you were dreaming? That is what a lucid dream is, knowing that it IS a dream. Okay, what you are worried about is precognitive dreaming, that is when you have a dream and it actually happens. This is still a matter of some debate, a lot of people say it's impossible. I have had precognitive dreams, I didn't know they were until after the event manifested and I couldn't understand why everyone around me was surprised by this news, surely they had been as aware of these events as I was? It is only after I become aware of the fact that this is a NEW event, do I actually recognise that my knowledge has been due to a precognitive dream. Your course of action should be this; telephone your Mum, if you don't get an answer, leave a message. When your Mum gets in touch with you, tell her about your dream and your distress. What will happen then is likely to be something along these lines; your Mum will be overwhelmed by your love and your worry for her safety, then she will calm you and tell you not to worry, she will also be very proud of you for being alarmed at the thought of an unplanned pregnancy and the stigma this may carry for you and your family. In conclusion, you are a loving, caring and considerate daughter and should be proud of yourself for the capacity to love that you have within you. Blessings to you and your family.

Answer 3

First off, this was not a lucid dream, as 'lucid dream' means you knew you were dreaming whilst still in the dream.

Secondly, if this dream is not one of a string in which you've seen events that later proved to be true, don't worry about it. There are some ties here with biblical accounts (e.g. the chariot, the cloud, the strange pregnancy), which suggests you have at least some knowledge of the Bible. If so then pray to God, through Jesus, to give you the peace you need.

If it IS one of a series of dreams which later came true, then again you need to pray to God: either to end these dreams for you (as if they were from God you'd know it, for He gives explanations: see Joseph's story in Genesis, Daniel's, and Joseph the betrothed of Mary in Matthew's Gospel), or to show you what He's telling you (but ONLY IF God or an angel has literally spoken to you in the dream, and you're not sure what He said). NB: if you have a visitor telling you they're God/an angel/a spirit, the simple test is to ask them if Jesus is God, is the unique, only-begotten Son of God, the only way of salvation for everyone, and whether they worship Him. if the answer to any of these Q's is no, then the spirit is to be rejected.

Hope this helps; may God bless you through Jesus Christ our Lord.

Answer 4

I am sorry to hear that you had such a dream but really this is a nightmare.

I have had a similar nightmare in the past & it worried me immensly. So you are not alone.

I am sure that your mum is OK & I hope that you have spoken to her.

I find that I dream if I eat cheese or dairy products before going to bed, so if you had any thing like this can I suggest that you do not have these at least 2-3 hours before you sleep.

Answer 5

Dreaming of a parent dying is usually a sign of maturity. You are realising that you are old enough to start taking responsibility for part of your own life. This can be daunting but it is quite natural. This is not necessarilly going to cut you off from your elders, just redine your relationship with them. This is what they have brought you up for and protected you from so far. In turn you will be ready to take on a similar role and protect and care for others like your Uncle and Mother have done. Good luck lovey.

Answer 6

Here in Spain they say that if you dream of someone's death you actually lengthen their life.
Don't worry, I understand. You're worried about your mom because she's so far away studying, your dream is because you're afraid something bad might happen to her. The pregnancy in your dream reflects this, you feel so alone, so "who will take care of me without my mother". Because we girls always turn to Mommy when we're in trouble. The baby, though, is new birth--new life--new hope. Don't be scared. You know you aren't pregnant, and your mom is busy but fine. I'm sure you'll be able to reach her soon. Just tell her you love her.
Sorry you had such a scary dream.

Answer 7

My girlfriend has similar dreams to your, dont worry its normal especially for women because they are more sensitive than use men. Anyway the best thing she found to was to talk to someone close that you trust as the old saying goes ''a problem shared is a problem halfed''. Just remember its a dream and they are only as real as you want them to be. confide in someone and you'll see how much better you feel! Remember you know where she is and soon or later you'll get hold of her and your mind will be put at rest! Goodluck!

Answer 8

Hopefully your dream is nothing more than an attack of acuite anxiety and your mom is fine. Have you tried e-mailing your mom? It sounds like you have a whole lot going on in your life right now. Try to relax and sort things out. Prayer is certain to help. Mother Mary will not forsake you if you pray to her earnestly and with a clean heart but above all, we must learn to accept God's will. Our prayers are with you. I sincerely hope your mom is well and you too.

Best.

H

Answer 9

That is a very vivid recollection , I wouldn't read too much into it , you were obviously in a very sound sleep allowing your mind to drift . This may sound weird to you but I only have dreams of this sort when I have ice creme before I sleep :)). My last dream I was standing on a bridge and when friends approached I would throw them over the side , I would look down and all I could see is clouds , weird huh ? :))

Answer 10

Is there any stress in your life at the moment, I find that if I'm worried about anything at all i dream really strange dreams and shout and scream in my sleep. The dreams probably wont be related to what is going on in your life, Try to get the dream out of your head and get on with your day. I'm sure all is fine