This is hypothertically speaking, its not me but please adress this question as if it were me.
I drink too much, I have stolen things when drunk , I have thought of mudering people when drunk, things I would never ever do ehen sober. I sometimes think I will take someones life if they interfered with my happiness( selfish, I know) I get over emotional and I beat my wife . I am overly jealous. I am paranoid and always think people are talking behind my back or plotting against me. I am insecure, even though I am very good looking , I am insecure about my looks . How can I find : inner peace, if that is what I need, or just become more stable! Without seeing a shrink??
2007-05-07 22:57:42 · 3 answers · asked by Purplemarshmellow 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Ok, I'll answer as if it is you:
These things are coming out in you because of the alcohol.
Heavy drinking can transform even the nicest person into a complete monster, a total b*stard who behaves like a maniac its not you thats mentally unstable, its your drinking that has got out of control and its going to get worse unless you put the brake on it. Everyone has a brake, you just have to put it on STOP and keep it there before you go right off the rails. You can do it. Just remind yourself next time you go to take a drink, what ever you have done before whilst drunk that you consider bad is not bad. It's gonna get TEN TIMES WORSE than it already is if you carry on like you are. You will alienate everyone arounsd you, lose your friends, wreck your life, get in debt, be falling over in the street, become the victim of crime, commit crime even, get in fights, get hurt, hurt other people and all you will live for at the end of the day is the few quid you need each day to go to the pub/off license to buy your fix because nothing else will matter you wont drink because you need it to get by you will drink because you need it to LIVE and you will be the only one in your world with just the bottle for company and all you will feel is despair each time that bottle runs out cos you know you HAVE to get another one.
That's how bad it can get.
So stop now.
If you cant stop, see your gp and ask for help. Or see an independant counsellor. Just stop the drinking now you're worth more than that and so is your life.
When you come out the other side of this you will look back and wonder how you ever got this deep into such a mess.
You can stop.
The first thing you need to do is to ask yourself what started it. What did you use the alcohol for to avoid/escape from?
Once you stop drinking things will get better I promise you.
You can do it. You have to. Good luck with it.
2007-05-07 23:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by Marilyn's Sister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hypothetically, you MUST admit you are an alcoholic who is out of control and seek help immediately! Find an AA group and go to it ASAP.
Getting drunk and stealing and beating people is not normal behavior! I don't do it and nobody I know does it! It's sick!
Thoughts of murder are just a stone's throw from actually taking a life because you think it's okay just because you're tanked. Get help, if you're the drunk. And LEAVE, if you're the wife of the drunk.
Hypothetically, of course ......
2007-05-07 23:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think trying to get through this alone is working too well for you so far. You really should seek help, if not for yourself, then for those you love. You are destroying friendships and love in your family over alcohol and what it does to you. It can't be worth it to you just to be drunk. Go to an AA meeting in your area and you will find help there as well as people who understand what you are going through. Do it for the people you love. Right now, you are destroying them little by little. Get help. Good luck.
2007-05-07 23:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋