Have you ever had a friend of the opposite gender, that was really just a good friend and that you could be open with, joke around with and just be yourself with...and then after you got a little older...things somehow started to change? Like everything you did somehow became this potencial sublimal message and everything was just..so different?
Like for example have you maybe sent a friend some song or a bunch of songs that you liked, because you wanted to share them with this person and just totally didnt realize how they could be interpretated later on by this other person?
Is it really actually inappropriate to send a guy friend a love song, because you wanted to show the new song you were listening to? I was only sharing my interests...i didnt mean anything more by it. Is that how things are really seen when you´re older? wow I hadnt realize how naive i must be.....
2007-05-07 22:34:32 · 16 answers · asked by Jaded 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Wow, okay i guess i should just be more careful from now on about my choice of music and other things....i just didnt realize that i had to be, was all...
2007-05-07 22:45:16 · update #1
Thank you everyone for your answers. :)
2007-05-08 03:49:48 · update #2
yep, I think with time things can become a little awkward, especially when a third person is involved. but I'm sure he got your message right, since you know each other so well, so don't worry too much about it!
2007-05-07 23:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Pavic♫ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When i was younger, I naively believe I can be friends forever with the opp gender. Things changed when this guy reacted differently. I even openly accused at my (then) bf that he is being stupid to be jealous of my relationship with this guy as we are just friends! Apparently my ex bf was right. This male friend was getting out of hand with our relationship. He even showered me with gifts, paticularly this watch (with cartoon)that depicts a couple making love.
I was in total shock... sad at the same time. I stopped talking to him even since. Unable to resume our friendship... or perhaps he never take me as a "friend"!
2007-05-08 05:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by Troy Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree. I actually did the same thing before and they took it as if I was hitting on them when they had a boyfriend. Wasn't the case but things got awkward there for a bit. Unfortunatly we do have to somewhat censor ourselvves so others don't get the wrong idea.
2007-05-08 06:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by rayda1009 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-05-08 05:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that you really can have a true friend of the opposite gender,you sent him a love song and that means that your thoughts and feelings were friendly,its not your fault if your friend thought something else~
2007-05-08 05:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by ₪₪₪AbsolutE₪₪₪ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I sent a joke to one of my cousins and he starting thinking that I fency him or something. You're not naive, they are.
2007-05-08 05:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by the geeko 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, look at that--your last statement answered your whole question.
2007-05-08 05:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-05-08 05:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by destiny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend ever is a guy...i send him whatever i want to.....he gets me....=) he doesn't often misinterpret the things i do....but even if he does he asks me about it and i say something like yeah right you wish....and then we laugh...;)
2007-05-08 05:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope...never...
2007-05-08 05:55:44 · answer #10 · answered by efm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋