2007-05-07 21:43:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
by leaving him and "coming" with a mexican
2007-05-07 21:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is one of the oldest problems in the book. If your sex drive is a lot stronger than his then you are in trouble. There is nothing you can give him to increase his sex drive to match yours. You will have to choose to control your sex drive to match his, have extra marital affairs, or just find another man to love and leave him. It is not a good thing to have two different sex drives in a relationship. As to some people it is just not important. If you do choose to stay with him, you will be always working hard to stimulate him to have sex with you. If he is not into sex with a sexy girl like yourself, then this will cause you frustration and heart ache. He will not be in the mood most of the time. You will eventually go looking for other men to cool your hot urges. This happens more than you know. The relationship is great except for the sexual urges of each of the partners. Sex is not the only thing in the relationship but sex is a big part of keeping the relationship on an even keel. It is hard but if you are not willing to reduce your sexual drive then end the frustration now and find a new partner. Good Luck
2007-05-07 22:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The three biggest things that have hampered my sex drive have been tiredness (yes, this can be an ongoing state lasting weeks if life is stressful), stress, both acute (i.e. worrying about the sex or some silly insecurity) and ongoing, such as work stress, and medication (some meds can really kick your libido down for a time). It may be that your fella is working and stressing too much, and he probably thinks that he's doing the right thing... but it's robbing your together time in the mambo department! If time with him is more important to you than the latest car/phone/whatever then *tell him*! Anyone only has so much energy, and if it's all spent working and stressing then there's nothing much left for lovin'. If lovin' is what you need, you need to help your man save some of that energy for you. Knowing that money isn't as important to you as he is will help, a lot... but be prepared to have to keep telling him *in different ways* many, many times. 'Cause we men have heard the importance of making money many, many times!
2007-05-08 03:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by David C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all HE has a bigger problem than she does. If a man passes up sex with a woman, or his use of porn causes a problem in a real relationship (which it has) he has an issue. He may be addicted to pornography. The fact that he hides it and does it when she is not home is a big red flag. Now as far as she is concerned she wont be satisfied long with masturbation and being turned down will eventually get old. Lets just hope that he is not too busy with his self and his porn to notice when she leaves him and finds someone else to fill her needs. He needs to seek help for the porn problem.
2016-05-18 00:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karen, You and your man should see a Urologist. There may be a medical issue such as a low testosterone level. This is an easy fix.
If there is no medical issue, a counselor suggested by the Urologist would be the next step. He may suggest you go with him as a support person.
Your man needs to know how important your feelings are. This can't be accomplished by nagging him. A professional will now how to speak to him without making him feel boxed in or defensive.
In any event, best of luck to you!
2007-05-08 06:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by Country Boy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all .. Dont listen to these guys .. There is always a solution. I'm a guy and i know how guys think ..
here is what i sugest :
1. Try new things .. even if u think they r crazy ... sometimes these things is what will turn him on.
2. Try watching a romantic or even a porn movie with him .. but u know u need to prepair everything else .. like candles ..
3. If there is kids .. try making them go to bed early .. to have more time for fun
4. Ok .. i would be more than happy to brain storm some ideas with you online .. u know .. more details from your side would help ..
IM me anytime .. would love to help
2007-05-07 23:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by KickBoxer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strip infront of him, then have sex. -oesealor
2007-05-07 23:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a ******** but make him finish
2007-05-08 12:26:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with your high sex drive stop following your man I think he has lack of libido, please come to me.
I wish my girl was like you.
2007-05-07 22:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋