What do you think of people who complain a lot?

Answer 1

Too much negative energy. It makes me not want to be around them.

Answer 2

As I get older it's difficult to listen to complainers. I try and change the subject if it's coming from someone I'm close to.
If I don't know the person well and I'd rather not listen then I'll just say it's time for me to go.I wish they would think of things that are going good for them instead.

Answer 3

well, whats your definition of a lot?
I think every one complains.
People tend to focus on the bad instead of the good.
but if we didn't then, we would never see or solve problems, we'd be sitting around like a bunch of burned out hippies.
I just wish people would complain constructivly and positivily more.

Answer 4

oh i hate them
they just go on and on and on about how terrible everything is and how bad their life is and everything
whine, whine, whine, but they never take action to change anything
they expect the world to fix itself for them
why keep complaing about things that you cant change, and if you can change it, don't complain, do something.
people that complain alot are the worst
their destructive attitutes bring down the mood in any room because they take up so much time and space griping about this and that without actually adding anything productive
they always say this is the way it should be without actually trying to affect changes
people that complain alot should be gathered up into one big complaints department and locked up
what a horrible waste of resources
usually people that complain alot are also very lazy. why should i help them? why should my hard earned tax dollars go to supporting their complaints? they are always lobbying the government about this or that, the neighbours fence is to high, or that dog barks too much, or our street needs a speed bump to slow down traffic
complainers fill up endless paper and kilobytes with unproductive trash, wasting our time, often getting grants for a study into their proposed speed bump. what effect will it have on safety? on speeds? on local wildlife? what will be the long-term consequences to gas prices? what colour would be most acceptable to people in the community? to the future generations.
its just endless ramblings meant to draw attention to themselves to help them with their low self esteem. seriously. join a support group or something.












i kid. this whole thing is long rambly complaint (in case you can't tell) to prove my point. but seriously. whiners suck.

Answer 5

That people need to lend a sympathic ear so they don't end up with a couple of pistols on a universite campus.

If people listened then things might be different, people might still be alive, and you might discover that this complainer could turn into your best friend.

Try closing your mouth and listening to people, you might help someone and you might learn something.

Answer 6

I have a boss who does nothing but complain (especially about me).
Used to get totally fried about it until I realized she's this way at home, in the grocery store wherever.
Now, I pray for her to find peace, understanding, forgiveness, grace and love.
Yeah, *****, I'm talking about you!
Oh, sorry. Maybe I still get a little upset.

Answer 7

Annoying

Answer 8

They love misery. I have a friend who whines constantly. She can really bring me down. I will mention it to her every now and then, she'll stop for a few days than go back to whining. Compared to what I have went through in the last 4 years she lives a charmed life. She can't seem to understand that our life is what we make it. I over came the death of my son and turned his death into advocacy for leukemia, lymphoma and Make A Wish foundations. Now what I will do is say "There is nothing you can do about it. So lets change the subject."

Answer 9

I think people who complain alot need people like me to tell them shut up and chill, relax and stop whining.Everything will not go your way in life. Sometimes you will be dissappointed .

Answer 10

I try not too. think of them at all. I think some people are not happy unless they are complaining.

Answer 11

bout people who complain........ huh.. i think u should jus keep quite n not answer 2 their questions n not respond 2 their complains. then they'll stop complaining