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We were drunk last weekend and we ended up making out, it was sort of a joke thing, but I feel kind of gay, am I?

2007-05-07 17:08:12 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

34 answers

If you're attracted exclusively to dudes, you're gay. Only you can answer that question.

2007-05-07 17:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1 1

No, you are not. At least not simply by doing that. To be gay you need to BE gay. Not just make out with another guy when you're drunk. Drunk people do lots of things they normally wouldn't while sober. Some of them are "honest" behaviour that is normally supressed while sober, but some are just things you do because your mind isn't working well at the moment. Wanna know if you're gay? Make out with a guy again, this time while sober, and see if you like it!

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2007-05-07 17:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by jao_tuanis 3 · 0 0

I don't think so. You just had an gay experience in life and thats all. I'd say the definition of being gay is when you decide that in your life you wish to continually love a member of the same sex as yourself. You could choose to be bi where you can love both men and women or be straight.
It's really up to one main deciding factor. Do you love Men. Do you love Women. Do you love both Men and Women.
If you are the same sex and decide that you love this way of life and wish to be gay, then by all means be gay.
Making out with your friend......do you now only think of doing it more?

2007-05-07 17:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by lordhershel 2 · 0 0

It's perfectly natural to be confused when that sort of thing happens. You should feel it out and see if it's your thing. Some people know right away, some take a while, some come to like the alternative lifestyle. In this day and age it's perfectly acceptable to be whatever you want so go for it. What's your quality of life if you don't explore every crevace of it?

2007-05-07 17:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

To be comepletely honest, it happens, doesn't mean anything if you don't FEEL anything.. Really.. sit down and think about it. You said you feel "gay".. are you attracted to your friend? If you are, then well.. hun, your curious for the most part. Don't jump to a title of which people like to give out. Your you.. it is only how you feel on the inside that can title you. and at that. titles shouldn't matter.... Like me.. i'm a lesbian who cares.. i kiss my male friends on the lips.. does that make me bi? no.. just means i kiss my male friends on the lips.... catch what i'm saying?
hopefully i helped in some way for ya. =) good luck

2007-05-07 17:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you were drunk and you have no idea what you did then no, but then if you had feeling and quite aware of everything whilst making out with you friend (same sex) then I must say you're gay... that's only my opinion though.

2007-05-07 17:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by baal d 1 · 0 0

Did you enjoy it? It doesnt make you gay to kiss someone of the same sex especially if it wasnt something you set out to do in the first place. If your attracted to the same sex and pursue the same sex then yes you'd be considered gay. Either way your human dont beat yourself up too much over this.

2007-05-07 17:16:21 · answer #7 · answered by Caligirl 5 · 0 0

No, There was drinking involved... Unless that Means Your Only Gay When your Drunk... Something to ponder...

2007-05-07 22:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by digital_forte 2 · 0 0

You're the only one who can decide that.. cause we don't know the inner you.

If you enjoyed it, take in to consideration you were drunk. But try it sober, and if you like it, you're probably bi because straight men don't make-out with each other and like it, ya know?

2007-05-07 17:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by Ethen 6 · 0 0

I think that everyone experiences similar things, even though they may not wanna admit it.! If your still atracted to girls but like guys then your bi not gay.!And I think half the world is!
i'm a girl and i'm bi, but if you are just interested in guys now ya you may be gay, but hey not that theres anything wrong with that! :)

2007-05-07 17:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

That is only something you know...but you should not be ashamed....I have a lot of gay friends, and they are the best....

<3

2007-05-07 17:12:38 · answer #11 · answered by Nomo 2 · 0 0

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