worried if your husband did not make love to you?
2007-05-07 13:49:08 · 25 answers · asked by Amy E 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
1 Cor 7:1-5
when either or both wants to.
2007-05-07 17:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by robert p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Amy honey,
It's hard to say what is normal. Every couple is different.
With my hubby and I, it could be only twice this week,
and 2-3 times the following week, maybe only once another
week ! It could depend on how physically drained he is,
sometimes he is just so tired that we just cuddle. But I feel
the love and that counts for alot in my books.
Heck you are much younger than I am,
we will have been married 24 yrs this coming May 21st.
Try and talk to him Amy ! You really need to sit down and
ask him what's going on !
Lots of love and hugs,
Fran
2007-05-07 14:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ive been married 15 yrs, it depends really on whats going on in our lives. Before we had 2 kids in 16 months, it was 3 times a week, when we had serious debt and both working 75 hrs a week before kids it was 4 times a month
If you are worried, you guys need to have a sit down.
Now I would say honestly once a week
2007-05-07 14:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a week need it or not! And yes if it got less then that I would worry. But there could be reasons why this is not happening too tired, or just mentally drained, or my favorite just not enough hours in the day! Sit down and talk to him about it!
I am sure both of you can work something out to both of your benefits!
2007-05-07 13:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband & I have been married for 7 yrs. & we have gone through times when we made love everyday & times when we went a month or more. Every couple is different & there are many factors to consider...kids, work, stress etc.! I wouldn't be worried unless there are chunks of time that you can't account for where he is! Otherwise, it's a phase of life & it will pass! :)
2007-05-07 14:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
3-4 times a week at least. Yes i would worry unless he seems really tired or alot of stress a work. You need to talk to him and find out what is going on.
2007-05-07 13:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would probably be worried if he didn't want to make love to me. My boyfriend and I are probably at least 3 days or more a week.
2007-05-07 13:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by blue-jeanbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I'd say about 3 or 4 times at least! You should have a talk with him. Tell him if you ain't gettin it at home, you might get it somewhere else. I don't think he'll call yer bluff. Sometimes you gotta scare the wang out of em!!
2007-05-07 14:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by chris j 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1-2 for me and my man - I'm not sure if that's normal or not, but we work opposite shifts and don't see each other during the week much - being tired is always a factor as well.
2007-05-07 13:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by Trish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normal is different for each couple. Whatever makes each partner happy.
2007-05-07 13:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋