2007-05-07 13:13:14 · 13 answers · asked by lonelymom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He might "act" like that, but inside that's not how he REALLY feels. Not all actors are in Hollywood! He loves, and misses, his family.
2007-05-07 13:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't no you but I'll bet my life that he left you for a co-worker
am I right ? I'm talking to a girl thats here on Q&A that e-mailed me, her ex left her with 2 very small boys. She is only 21 years old and is so sad.She feels so betrayed by him and is asking the same question as you and I myself.My husband did the same to me and yes it was with a co-worker.I wonder if these big corporate company's no that by putting male and female together they are causing thousands of divorces each year.What they need to do is make it a automatic dismissal for both parties in void in the work place.None of that (what we do after hours is our business) that's not going to get it.If you work together no going out after work or happy hour.It's all off limits. Answer to your question,sex is everything to a man and when someone new comes in to the picture he looses himself in this dream world he has made for himself where there are no responsibility he has fount this quiet safe place where he can leave the big bad world out side and have someone there waiting for him to walk in that door and make him the most important person in her life.This is the way he sees it ,and he is willing to walk away from everything he has worked for just for this made up world.But when the walls come falling down around him and he gets a good look at what she really is, then it's to late.Now he starts to cry because he has to pay to much child support or what can I do to get my wife back.
2007-05-07 13:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has some mismanaged chemicals going on in his brain to do this
It has to be more than a woman coming into his life, I mean, he can't help but meet up with a lot of them in a day.
He may feel that he wants something else in his life that he isn't getting. Maybe he wants to party all night long, and act young and foolish. Let him, he might come to his senses and decide he wants his family so be ready with an answer you can live with. That is painful, but it gets worse not better if he moves back in.
Good Luck with this!
2007-05-07 13:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one just suddenly acts like they dont love or care for you. Those feelings were always there and he wasnt about nonething from the begining. True colors coming out thats all, somethings the truth is hard to digest. forget about him and move on. Develop a plan so that when you fall in love again he will really be Mr. Right.
2007-05-07 13:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by spirit2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are selfish creatures and will do only what benefits them. most of the time, it is whatever they desire and when the guilt gets too bad - he will call, send a card or present or whatever - it is his deal. He will regret it, it might be today or tomorrow or ten years from now - but what goes around comes around. worry about yourself and your kids and tell yourself that you are better off for not having a scumbag like that in your life or in your kids life.
2007-05-07 14:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's angry, it's called retaliation. If not angry, he has another woman on the side and is too busy to worry about whether you are sitting around mooning or not.
Move on with your life. You are divorced. It's over.
2007-05-07 15:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens...unfortunatly! the best revenge is to go and be happy! why would u want to spend a second crying over someone who doesnt care about u...? dont do it.
He wont know what to think..when u move on and be happy.
theres someone out there waiting for you..but u cant find him..if ur mooing over this creep!
get up..dust yourself off..and get in the game!
2007-05-07 13:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by lisa baby... 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What he sowed he will definiately reap. If he doesn't care now, in the future he will. He is going to need his kids one day and I hope you are teaching them to love and care for their dad in spite of his selfish ways. I will pray for you and your children and also their dad, that God will soften his heart and be the man God has designed him to be. God Bless you and your family.
2007-05-07 13:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by wisdom_women 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men shut down emotoinally, we like to talk, they dont, he cares but he cant explain himself, my friend who is male left his wife and child, he said he didnt love her and wanted to move on, she told me that he came home, packed his bag and said he wanted the single life again, so two stories, said and heard differently, resulting in the same outcome, I think he does care but cant be with you any longer, unfortunatley.
2007-05-07 13:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by natc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Another woman is the most likely answer
2007-05-07 13:35:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋