Questions that you would want them to answer before eventually moving in together or going through a commitment / civil union / marriage ceremony.
2007-05-07 12:55:10 · 10 answers · asked by NHBaritone 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Mumof:
Until you get the lingo and the logos, you may want to restrict your answers in the LGBT section. You make yourself look awfully naive. My avatar is the logo of the Human Rights Campaign, one of the top national lobbies for LGBT rights in the USA. You might gather from my association with such an organization that I am as gay as a summer day. Any other questions? Read my profile.
2007-05-07 13:09:19 · update #1
1. Do you want to have children?
2. What are your hopes/goals/dreams?
3. What are your expectations with regards to an open/closed relationship?
4. When do I get a chance to meet your family?
5. Is there anything about your past that I should know, that might affect me in a negative way, should we decide to be legally joined?
2007-05-07 13:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 1⤋
Once we got to the point of considering a commitment ceremony I would not have any questions to ask her if we get that far, because we would have been going out a long time and spoken about our lives, and we would know each other on a very intimate level, physically, emotionally and mentally. We would have been so very open and honest with one another, to the point where I would not have to ask her any questions, I would just want to marry her because we love each other.
2007-05-07 20:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
1. There won't be a problem keeping our intimate apparel separate, will there?
2. Cream and sugar? No, silly, that's not for the coffee.
3. Left or right?
4. Your nasty old jeans won't touch my gowns in the closet, will they?
5. Do your cowboy boots come inside every night?
2007-05-07 20:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by HerMajesty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really haven't thought about it. I guess if we're moving in together, we're probably already "intimate" so a blood test has already been taken. I don't know....but I'm sure those questions would be out of the way before I even thought about asking her to move in.
2007-05-08 03:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by pjonkml 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Are you HIV Positive. (Really I prefer Positive since I am... but it doesn't matter as long as he is someone who is health-conscious and who takes care of himself.)
2 How much debt do you have? (I ain't taking on someone else's financial ruins for love.)
3. What (if any) mental disorders or addictions to you have?!! (I'm clean, and dealing with all of my problems. I expect the other guy to do as well.)
4. Tell me about your last 3 relationships. (This should shed some light how this person talks about his other guys.)
5. Do you like to decorate? (I ain't fighting over where the damn picture is hung ever again!!!)
In all actuality, I don't see myself sharing my space with anyone again. I like the idea of visiting each other's pad!
2007-05-07 23:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Are you willing to use safer sex practices and get tested regularly for STDs until we're comfortable enough with our exclusiveness level and believe we're both monogamous and safe with each other?
2. Do you have a family that you're close to and how do I fit in with them?
3. How out are you and are you comfortable with my being OUT everywhere?
4. What life goals do you have?
5. Do you love my pets?
2007-05-07 20:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by FTW 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
What are your interests/hobbies/passions?
What are your long-term financial goals and how do you think "we" fit in that picture?
What sort of relationship do you expect(as in Open or Monogamous)?
What are your feelings about Religious issues?
Am I Mister Right or Mister Right Now, are you Committed to me and "us"?
Is there anything you would like to tell me(health status, financial status, family issues, and so on)?
Yes I know that's 6.
2007-05-07 20:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
...once you decide to go steady...
Do you snore?
Do want kids or pets?
Are you out to your family? How out are you?
Food allergies?
Been tested for STD's? This one hopefully happens before you sleep together....
2007-05-07 20:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by maeveangel 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well i haven't really thought about it till now...uummm...here goes...not necessarily in this order...
1.Do you have plans to relocate
2.when will i meet your family
3.meet your friends
4.Do you enjoy picking up and going (a huge thing with me...like to pick up and go on a whim)
5.Sexually:Are you conventional or spicy.
2007-05-07 20:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1-er--whats your name again x5 till they answer
2007-05-07 20:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by jkb 3 · 0⤊ 7⤋