The people I'm around, at first they loved me, loved, now they give me dirty looks because I didn't want to hang out with them. I hung out with them once, but it wasn't my crowd. Not me. I even think I'm ugly, but they think the opposite. Maybe they think that I think I am better than them. No. I just want to be invisible. Why on her did they notice me. Why did the guys notice me. I know, maybe I put on too much make up. I don't know. It's too much. I'm me. I'm going to quit my job. I don't need this!!! I am becoming cold too living in this environment. I have no other choice but to stay here and let them eat me alive. I come to work misrable. Who should I turn to? I no longer no who is my friend.
2007-05-07 11:12:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I'm trying to kill them with kindness, but I just had enough.
2007-05-07 11:21:32 · update #1
First stop thinking so much and breathe.
I have a belief,"No brains, no headaches." Whenever insecurity takes over try to forget everything and try to block everything. People are hateful where ever you go. They probably feel as miserable as you do and feel less miserable when they attack you. The more you think about something, the more negative things come into your thoughts.
Never let people make you want to runaway from who you are or quit something you have no reason quitting. Remember nothing is permanent so your situation in a little while.
You must stay positive in all your thoughts. Don't let these people know that they are crushing your spirit. Staying strong and confident will make you happy and make them realize they can't effect you. Keep your head up adn smile.
2007-05-07 11:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by ukeluv89 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see that this is a philosophical question, but, given how self-involved most people are, if they noticed you I'd bet it was the result of things you did to get noticed. And that contradicts "I just want to be invisible." What you write is full of contradictions -- "I know", "I don't know," "I'm going to quit my job," I have no other choice but to stay here."
You always have choices. What you have to do is think through the consequences of the choices, because it's really those consequences you're choosing. You can change your job, your environment, and even (though it's hardest) yourself. If what you're choosing isn't working out, choose differently. It takes courage. Good luck.
2007-05-07 18:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by Philo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are these people your coworkers? If these are your coworkers, you need to seperate your job from your personal life. Sometimes it's not a good idea to hang out with coworkers outside of the job. If these people are not your coworkers, then your situation is sounding a little scary. If people giving you dirty looks is bothering you enough to make you quit your job, you may have a chemical inbalance. In that case a visit to your primary care physician might not be a bad idea.
2007-05-07 18:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by butterflybee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are afraid of you because you are different.Being different scares people because its not the norm or what society deems normal.I would quit and find a better job with a good atmosphere,I would rather be broke for awhile than having to take all the crap from the ******* from coworkers because I am me.
A friend doesnt care what you are but who you are....Unique
2007-05-07 18:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by demonik6_6_6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋