How do you overcome anti-social behavior?

Question

I am somewhat paranoid half the time,angry a 3rd of the time,shy maybe less than a quarter of the time,argumentive and jealous at others the rest of the time.

In addition I am a private person,who will socialize with people individually but tends to back away and avoid large groups like at parties,malls,beaches etc..

Sometimes I get angry and paranoid for no reason when I see people having a good time and I probably sympathize with (certain) recent and older historical people and events that I rather shouldn't.

This is not a joke,I do not want to be like this the rest of my life,and I am honestly seeking answers before its too late.

Like most people in my position I was mistreated in school and had a rough child hood,but I doubt that has anything really to do with me now.

What must I do,other than going to a phsyciatrist because I know that is what most people are going to say rofl?

Answer 1

Who rejected you when you were young? Either they rejected or abandoned you?

Proverbs 18:14
The spirit of a man will sustain his infirmity; but a wounded spirit who can bear?

Accepting rejection (real or imagined) disagrees with who God says we are. It puts man's acceptance as more important than God's. Your heart says: "God, you lied when You said that I was worthy. I would rather believe what other people think of me."

Rejection will lead us on a desperate search, striving for the love that will complete us. That love cannot be found in people, places or things, but only in God.

Ephesians 1:4-5
According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before Him in love: Having predestinated us unto the adoption of children by Jesus Christ to himself, according to the good pleasure of His will,

The unloving spirit rejects everything God has said about you in His word (that you are fearfully and wonderfully made) and replaces them with Satan's blatant lies. These deceptions will prevent you from loving God, loving yourself, and loving others. It blocks you from receiving this love as well as from giving it. Many of us have not grown up in a godly, loving environment. This hinders us from an early age in receiving the very love we crave so much.

Unloving spirits go 2 ways - 1. You think you are not worthy of God's love or acceptance or 2. You think you are better than anyone else. Like God's gift to mankind

Pray to the Father and ask Him to forgive you for your sins and for the sins of your forefathers. Confess your sins as you know them. Tell God that you repent for the work of sin in your life.

Confess that you have allowed bitterness to work through you.
If you hold bitterness against any person acknowledge that person and tell the Father you choose not to hold bitterness any more. Say, "I let go of any bitterness against myself, or even You, Father."

Say, "I release myself from this behavior and thought life. I will not allow bitterness in my life again. I ask that the curse of Anger and Jealousy which is the fruit of bitterness in my life, be broken.

In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, all bitterness must leave me now.

Thank you Father for forgiveness of my sin and for restoration of my body, mind and soul in the name of Jesus. Amen

Find a Christian Church counselor and tell them exactly what you have said here. Get you a King James Study Bible and read the Bible everyday. If you continue to have any problems after 3 months then ask God in prayer to reveal to you what must be done to deliver you from this anti-social behavior.

I want you to know one thing and get this in your head. You are never alone. The Living God is with you. If you haven't accepted Jesus Christ as your Savior, then ask Jesus to come into your heart and change you. John 3:16 says, "God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believes on Him should not perish but have everlasting life." Believe that Jesus died on the cross for you and me and He was buried and resurrected on the 3rd day. Read any one of the gospels which are Matthew, Mark, Luke and John.

My friend, you need the Lord and He will deliver you and make you whole. I'll pray for you.

Answer 2

Oh sweetheart...

I know it seems silly, but it sounds like you have some kind of anxiety or mood disorder, which is not at all uncommon. I, myself am bipolar.
I honestly think the best thing is to try and talk to a professional, a counselor or social worker or psychologist and let them know what is going on in your head and how you feel in certain situations. The great thing about talking to a professional is that, not only are you able to vent your feelings on someone who can help you interpret them, but they also can give you strategies to help overcome the issues that are keeping you from being happy.
They would also be able to talk with you about the possibility of needing medication and could refer you to a good psychiatrist. Medication isn't a way to drug your brain, it just helps it get back on track and can be used in combination with counseling to get the best effects.

I has done WONDERS for me. :)

Answer 3

I FEEL THE SAME AS YOU, BUT I HAVE CROSSED THE LINE AND HAVE GONE DOWN A PARTICULAR PATH THAT THERE IS NO COMING BACK FROM. I AM CONSTANTLY SEEKING A PLACE TO STRIKE...and that's all i'm going to say about myself. water seeks its own level.