How can you tell if your boyfriend is still into you?

Question

Me and myboyfriend ahve been together 3 years.We have a one year old son. Our sex life is still as good as wen we 1st met. He started a new job 3months ago. Since then i feel as tho he is nt as n to me as he used to be. He works all day and most saturdays. I know he is tired and stressed about work.I also know he would never cheat on me.He isn totally against being unfaithful and lying. I just feel as tho he is getting bored with me. Oursex life hasn't diminished at all. It just seems like he isn't all there mentally. How should i ask him or is there anything i should do to find out if it is just stress or me?

I figured it was the job. any creative ideas? I don;t want to put pressure on him at all. THat is why i have put it out of my mind. He is carrying alot right now. The sex is still awsome. But it is everything thing else...Know wat i mean?

Answer 1

Sorry you feel neglected but it sounds like its this new job. Give him time maybe he will be less tired after he gets the hang of it. Just dont start nagging him, its hard starting a new job.

Answer 2

Dont ask him because that will only put pressure on him. Just be creative and try to set aside time for yourselves. You need to be the instigator. You will find that as you get older your sex life will not be as active as it once was because of time and stress but you can still make the best of your alone time.

Answer 3

I recommend right in the middle your next sexual encounter you start that conversation. There is nothing like having a naked fight while having sex to see how stable your relationship is.

Answer 4

changes are happening in your lives. Give it another month. If no change to your thoughts talk to him.