being in touch with your sexuality and sensuality (without being promiscuous in sex) is frowned upon. Women especially?
Men, don't you want a wife who is skilled in bed?
Self confident, and the best she can be in all aspects of her life?
Women, aren't you tired of being repressed in this area of our lives?
2007-05-07 10:40:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Not promiscuos sex, only forms of self expression.
I do not have sex. I am speaking as a woman with confidence in her abilities, and her place as a wife.
Also because I voice my questions does not mean I am bi tching I am speaking and asking a relevant point.
2007-05-07 10:50:10 · update #1
Absolutely I want a woman who is skilled in bed, but not to the point of having had her jersey retired.
2007-05-07 10:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
OK, I'm going to throw this out there, take it or leave it.
In our society, women being in touch with their sexuality suggests that, logically enough, they've had sex before. The more in touch they are, the more sex it's suggested they've had before.
So, you ask, why is that bad? Well, take a man who's never had sex before and a man who has had sex with 100 different women, examine them physically, and try to find a difference. Barring an STD, you will have a hard time finding one.
Now do the same with two women in the same situation. Without being gross or graphic, there is more potential for body parts to be altered by the process. Areas expanded.
Plus, the transfer of fluids, while truly going both ways, generally appears to be one way - following a sexual encounter, a man leaves the way he arrived, whereas the woman has a mess to clean up.
Not to mention the possibility of a pregnancy and the changes that occur as a result.
All of this to say - women "depreciate" due to repeated sex faster than men. Therefore a woman who has had repeated sex is considered more "damaged".
Not saying any of this is the way things SHOULD be, but just making an observation about how the groupmind of society seems to work. Again, take it or leave it.
2007-05-07 17:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by Glenn S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, there is some thing called intimidation. Men are intimidated with a woman who is in touch with her sexuality...and by the rude comments are intimidated by you.
My husband is glad that I am skilled in bed. He thinks that I am the woman of his dreams. I fulfill him in every way.
He said to tell you that if a man is intimidated by your strength of skill it is because he is lacking in some area. (whether learned from self exploration or by experience) Just move on and forget you met him. They never change once this is the belief system they have in place.I am tired of the repression of sexuality in general where women are concerned. I mean think about the men who f u c k everything in sight and then because you have had more than one lover you are a wh ore. Raise your male and female children to think of equality where sex is concerned. Maybe one at a time we can change them.
Frankly, I am not surprised that there aren't more outraged women, but most of them are repressed to the point they will not even voice their opinions anymore.
2007-05-08 00:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, for starters, my husband loves it when I tell him what I want sexually because he says that then he can satisfy me in the way I deserve.
If a man can't except that I am my own person which is confident and self reliant than they can jump off a bridge for all I care.
But in general, I have found that men like woman who are strong and independant.
2007-05-07 17:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You really need to have a spouse that loves YOU . The sex is just a bonus . If you truly love each other you can figure out what the other wants in bed by just asking and experimenting .
2007-05-07 18:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by Red Cantrell 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We humans are like a great many other animals in males wanting to ensure that the offspring their females are raising are actually ours, hence societal suppression of female sexual expression. We wish to take no chances on stray sperm getting in there and messing up our bloodlines.
2007-05-07 17:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by gunplumber_462 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I disagree with this premise. While I did marry a virgin (well, she was when we met), I prefer her now, having learned after nine and half years, to pleasure each other. I don't know anyone who wants a virgin just because they are a virgin, they want young women because they are generally cuter, in better shape, and more fun-loving and eager. And they are also gullible, so they actually believe the bullstuff you feed them.
2007-05-07 17:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by Curtis B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I see your point. A televangelist man who has gay sex with his drug buddy has excuses made for him. If he had been a lady, near universal condemnation would have been heaped upon her. It's the leftovers fromthe Puritanical strain in this country that got kicked here from other countries back in the colonial days. Just like asking: a guy who has sex with many different ladies is considered a stud, while a girl with many sex partners is seen as a slut. Is it a cultural thing or a part of our human development?
2007-05-07 17:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by St. Toad 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt bother than the woman has to be skilled in bed. all she has to be to me is herself cuz that is all i want. her. i love women for women being women and not pretending who they are. who they are trying to be. be yourselves.
2007-05-08 01:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girl sucked me off expertly and I broke up with her. Why? How did she learn that?
2007-05-07 18:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋