ok well there is this guy in my grade that likes me and ppl want me to go out with him and i kinda do but i think he's afraid ill say no..how can i make him ask me out cuz ppl are telling me he wants to..any ideas?? pleaseeeeeee!
2007-05-07 09:04:04 · 17 answers · asked by alex♥ 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Do something crazy and ask him. If you sit around waiting for others all your life you will definately miss out on a lot : )
2007-05-07 09:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by chickey_soup 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be in the right place. It's best to ask someone out in person, so you've got to make sure to be where the guy you have a crush on is. This could be at the mall, the movies, or maybe at the baseball field if he's an athlete. You don't want to look like a stalker, but you do want to be able to talk to him.
Take the initiative. Unfortunately, many guys are too afraid to walk up to someone they're interested in and ask them out. Take matters into your own hands. Walk up to him slowly and introduce yourself. Try not to do this if he's extremely busy, but at the same time, don't let the opportunity to talk to him pass you by just because you're nervous. If he seems receptive when you introduce yourself, keep on talking to him.
Make small talk with him. Break the ice by commenting on something he's wearing or saying something about the place or event you're at. Just try to get him to feel comfortable around you.
Make eye contact with him. While the two of you are talking, make eye contact and try to hold it for just a little longer than you normally would--just two or three seconds. If he makes eye contact back, he's probably interested in you. Make sure he's not looking at you because you're doing something weird or because he is the cashier.
Commence flirting. This can mean touching him lightly on the arm, for example, or laughing at his jokes. Just be playful and communicate that you're interested. Sometimes you can flirt from afar and entice him to come over to you.
Ask him non-intrusive questions about himself, such as what kinds of things he likes to do, what his favorite kind of food is, or if he likes to play sports. By asking harmless little questions you can find out more about him to determine if you really want to ask him out, and you might find out whether or not he's single. You can also set the conversation up to ask him out.
Ask him out. Once you find something you both have in common, ask if he'd like to do it together sometime. If you don't succeed in finding something you have in common, you might not really find him that interesting, but if you want to take a chance, just let him know that you'd like to hang out with him again.
If he says no, or if he seems like he needs more time, don't get too upset; always say you can just be friends if that's what he wants. Chances are, he'll change his mind. Guys do this a lot. Whatever you do, don't trash him to behind his back; that makes you look bad.
If he says yes, then plan where and when you will go out, and don't forget to have fun. Since you asked, you should pay for the date, unless he insists.
2007-05-07 09:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by naf2315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the 20th century>>> It's ok for you to ask HIM out! Don't wait for him sometimes guys r afraid of rejection, if you know he is interested in you go on and ask him out! good luck
2007-05-07 09:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by itsme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get a friend to tell him you like him, he might not believe her because maybe she was part of a group of kids that made fun of him in first grade, or maybe she's disloyal and she'll tell him SHE likes him or maybe he likes you but doesn't LIKE like you or doesn't want a girlfriend. Or maybe your dad already got to him and said don't even think about it. See? It can get very confusing if you don't speak up for yourself.
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2007-05-07 09:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well welcome to my world well u should ask him out or just give him clues like hang around him alot like just play with him smile alot more wear lots of lip gloss umm and always touch him or poke him propiatly in the right places tickle him and stuff leave little notes with stickers and lolopops just dont let him c u ok
2007-05-07 09:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by tiff4elmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd talk to him and make it clear that you are interested. If guys feel like they are going to get rejected, they won't ask. Make him feel like he won't go wrong if he asks :o) Good luck!
2007-05-07 09:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by kristen C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt wit him a lil bit, show that ur ARE interested, ask questions or say things that show u like him. "do u have a girlfriend?", "u have nice eyes" stuff like that.....and jus be a natural flirt! lol...just talk to him!
2007-05-07 09:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by Sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spread around the school that you like him too or go up to im in private and say i know you like me and i like yoou too or somethin and things should pick up from there
2007-05-07 10:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by Oh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a friend to tell him that you like him. It always works.
2007-05-07 09:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him and make it seem like ur interested in him.
2007-05-07 09:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋