Ok. Ok. Say there are 3 different types of groups of people. A,B, and C. Now say I was in A before. Then I kinda got pushed to B, which i didn't really want to. Group A met some different people that i wasn't "use to" Now I don't like B. The people are getting mean. It is like they are making fun of me because they almost know that i am "better" at them. Well not all of them and I think they are doing in unconsciously or something. I really don't know, it is just what I think. How would I get back into A? Its not like I can go back and just say yup your my new best buds now. Well Now, I'm like in between sort of. Does anyone understand???
2007-05-07 08:40:00 · 4 answers · asked by TEREX M 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Okay, breathe.
Stop struggling.
Be who you are, be friends with people you like. If you want to be friends with A, be nice to them, be a friend to them. Or go make some completely different friends who you like and who like you. You don't have to struggle with this, you dont' have to announce who your friends are or which group you're in.
These are people, and your relationship with them is defined by your behavior, not circle-hopping. So be a friend with those who you want to be friends with, and stop torturing yourself.
2007-05-07 08:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by KC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have friends, you need to be a friend. It sounds like you didn't try to get along with the new guys/gals in A. You can't go back and tell the people in A. Ask, talk to them and try to find out what happened. Tell them you consider them your friends and would like to return.
2007-05-07 15:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by Redshanks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand and i'm kinda in the same boat, except my friends moved. just work your way back into the group. find one person you were the closest with and reconnect with them. eventually with enough time spent together you will become good friends again
2007-05-07 15:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by Iris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither one is right. We are all alike. If by your standards an A Group = is feeling good about yourself, knowing you have good self-esteem, that's the way we should feel. It's not about money. It's about who you are.
2007-05-07 15:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by mary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋