Before me and my fiancee got engaged to be married I loved porn , it was fun to watch , but now that we are engaged to be married I find porn to be completely offensive and degrading to women . Is this normal ?
side note - it's not because of my fiancee because she loves porn .
2007-05-07 07:54:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
your just focusing your attention on her if your still married to her after a few years she will get old and you will welcome porn with open arms
added: porn does not degrade women unless the woman is forced to do things she isnt willing to do, ask yourself this, is porn degrading to a man and if you think it isnt why not? it goes both ways
2007-05-07 07:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-20 04:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by giffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things do change when you've got a steady partner. I kinda feel like I'm cheating when I check out porn without my wife around. Could you picture your lady doing those porn acts? Is that why it offends you?
2007-05-07 08:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not unusual for this to happen. Obviously you are very much in love with your fiancee, as time goes on in your marriage you will probably once again be interested in porn and enjoy watching it with her.
2007-05-07 08:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the women in porn choose to be degraded, so you shouldn't be offended.
2007-05-07 08:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by thatdude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is related to your getting married. It is changing your attitude since you will soon be directly "connected" to her and in your mind you would not want any to degrade her (and carrying that attitude to all women).
Since she likes porn as well - work it out with her. Many couples find some porn helpful in "spicing" up their love life.
Good luck and congrats on your upcoming nuptules.
2007-05-07 08:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably just maturing because you are making big steps in your life and thinking about marriage and family.It might just be a phase but either way, it's totally normal.
2007-05-07 08:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by BAnne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, good wise man u are, i wish mine had as much common sense as you!
2007-05-07 08:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by NY Yanks Girrl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yep i aggree thats how i feel to, just means your a righteous guy with principles
2007-05-07 08:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means your a good guy who is growing up and has morals! it also means you have a new respect for women as well. THANK YOU!
2007-05-07 13:08:08 · answer #11 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋